Your posts are like library books, in the wrong forum things get very confusing.
Please make sure you're posting in the right place. It may seem nitpicky to ask that you post in different areas, but imagine being a new mom looking for answers to her questions about pregnancy, only to find a bunch of discussions about other things. We're just trying to keep things neat and organized for everyone.
Here's how our forums are organized so that you can the answers and support that you're looking for.
If you're not sure if you're pregnant, please post in our Am I Pregnant? forum:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Pregnancy-Am-I-Pregnant/show/1076
If you have questions about who your baby's father is, please post in our DNA/Paternity forum:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/DNA---Paternity/show/1492
If you're a pregnant teen looking for support from other teens, or if you have questions about avoiding teen pregnancy, please post in our Teen Pregnancy Issues forum:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Teen-Pregnancy-Concerns/show/259
If you'd like to talk about your pregnancy, please post in our Pregnancy forums:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Pregnancy-18-24--/show/152 (age 18-24)
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Pregnancy-25-34/show/1503 (age 25-34):
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Pregnancy-35/show/89 (age 35 and over)
If you've already had your baby, you can join the other new moms in our Maternal & Child Health forums:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Maternal--Child/show/82 (under age 35)
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Maternal--Child-35/show/249 (age 35 and over)
If you want to talk about life (boyfriends, family, husband, jobs, jokes, recipes, what you ate, what you want to eat, what you wish you hadn't eaten, etc.), please post in the Pregnancy Social forum:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Pregnancy-Social/show/1541
Here's our Baby Products forum:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Baby-Products/show/262
And here's where to talk about breastfeeding:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Breastfeeding/show/233
Also, did you know that we have forums for moms expecting in specific months? We set them up so that you can compare notes about how your pregnancy's progressing. You can find these forums in our big list here:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/list
Topics about drama, criticizing other members, or "judging" are out of place absolutely everywhere in our community. We don't expect everyone to agree with one another but we do expect civil behavior, and we'll remove posts and entire threads if they violate our Terms of Use. After all, we're here to provide support, knowledge, and advice to one another in a safe, welcoming setting.