I cant make that boy do **** idont need to grow up from his actions thats his life his decision. This post has nothing to do with my childrens father. If he dont wanna be there for his kids thats him im not his mom I cant force him to stop. Therefore I DONT need to grow up YOU do cause this post is NOT about him. Your just starting drama no one cares.
if you guys didn't know but earlier she was saying she lets her boyfriend be high and playing videos game while in the house where he doesn't even watch his own kids his just high all day. why would you want someone like that in your house and why are you staying if he cheats on you and wants weed more then taking your kids. were not saying you were a bad person were saying your babys daddy is and you need to leave him. no one ever said you were doing it. but we were saying do whats right for your kid and not let that man bring you and your kids down. if he rather smoke weed then take care of your kids whats the point of having him here. think of your kids and not how people judge you. don't tell the other girls they need to grow up when really your the one who needs to.
& im still a parent even when I smoke weed again. Cause I smoke dont mean I HAVE to give my baby up for adoption now your just dumb for saying that and really do need to grow up.
See sone people smoke to much that get them stupid high. Im not talking bout that if I need to relax and take stress and pain away ill smoke a joint after my kid is asleep & an hour later be fine. I never let people around my child while stupid high nor drunk or drinking. This is when they are sleep . That is my relaxation and im not harming my child so I feel it is okay. Its a 2 or 4 times a month thing. Instead od going out partying every weekend like I used to.
Well, judging by the spelling and grammar and poorly constructed sentences, I think it's safe to say weed doesn't do anything to improve brain function. If you're wanting to sound like an educated person who's "researched" the effects of marijuana, at least learn English.
If u don't know how weed makes u really feel u can't say how a person while be weed only calms ur nerves it doesn't make u crazy slow dumb it just makes u calm u can't compare a drunk person to some one high u can be high n still function perfectly normal but being drunk u can't n weed is not illegal every were if u watch the news u would know that a few States have made weed legal to smoke
I COMPLETLY agree with dezzyL . You guys are idiots if you think smoking pot doesn't make you a bad parent IT DOES. Doing ANYThING that impares your mental state while taking care of a child makes you a bad parent. Yes it "had to be said" grow up kids stop the drugs if you want to be a parent. And if you can't well there's always adoption.
I don't think it's right to do any drugs while pregnant or had just Givin birth. Now if your kids are grown and out of the house already and you feel like having a drink and smoking a joint then I'm all for it. No one to influence nor take care of. I'm also pro marijuana for medicinal purposes like cancer. Al though in some places the state can consider it legal the Federal Law doesn't and can arrest your a $$!
Why, if you won't smoke while pregnant, would you want your children around it when they're not inside of you? I saw the other post that this one came from, but couldn't comment because I'm on the mobile app. If you try and do research on the subject, you will find that there is very little to be found. Why? Because it is ILLEGAL almost everywhere. Its a drug. Plain and simple. It impairs your judgement, don't try to say it doesn't. Would you let a drunk person care for your children? Probably not, so why let a stoned one? Parenting and weed DO NOT mix, plain and simple.
I used to smoke bud before I was pregnant & I stopped becus I felt different . Turned out I was pregnant & since then its never crossed my mind to blaze it . In my state its legal to smoke marijuana & you can't get arrested. & my best friend smoked marijuana while pregnant & after birth she's one badass mother ! Weed isn't as bad as coke , meth or s.hit , just cus you smoke weed , doesn't make you a bad mother or make you an unfit one!
I smoked weed before being pregnant too n it doesn't make u a bad parent just cuz u choose. To longs its not done in front of ur child ppl will have there own opinions don't let some one else choice make u feel like urs is wrong my bf still smokes but idc cuz he not the one pregnant n its his choice but he knowshe wont be around my baby n he agrees he works hard all day every day so I don't mind but if he wasn't doing anything wit his self then we would have a problem but ur going to get a lot of different opinions but no one has the right to say u are a bad parent cuz u smoke in that case drinking is worse to me but woman believe its okay to drink wine while pregnant smh so which is actually a bad parent u can't say either one its just your opinion
Pot is not cloud 9 thats another drug hun. & not talking bout around or anything with kids involved afterwards. Im talking you go out and dont wanna drink or do the other crazy drugs. You smoke a little joint. And come home the next day. Does not make you bad mother. Never will I ever do it around my children but ill never lie to my kids.
I agree completely smoking pot does not make you a bad person. I personally do not smoke pot but both my parents are very much so. They go though about an oz every other day. To each there own is what I say. But before you judge someone do your research. Pot is not this evil drug some of you make it sound to be. For some it does amazing things. I am not a pot smoker like I said but I fully support those who smoke pot for there own reasons. I live in Colorado so it is legal here in just a few days. I grew up around pot, my parents,aunts,uncles, grand parents all smoke and I decided not to for my own reasons but I truly see nothing wrong with it. Alcohol is much worse in my opinion. So if you truly do not know don't judge. More people smoke then you think. Just let that sink in for a moment.
I've never smoked, and I really don't think it's my place to judge if someone does. I don't see it as being as bad a drug as crack or meth, it comes from the earth. Not cold medicine and cleaning supplies. I do see how it would be a bad idea to smoke when you've got young ones to take care of, I can't imagine being around an infant or toddler while impaired. But to each his own.
Any man/woman who cant give up drugs for their child should not be a father/mother. Your children could be seriously hurt or something worse while your smoking your pot on cloud 9.... My opinion.