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miscarriage??

I am almost 5 weeks now on my first pregnancy. Not sure if this is irrational but i keep freaking out that i could eventually have a miscarriage. I dont feel any pain or cramps or no bleeding. But im just scared. Any tips on how not to be so scared.
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Please try not to be scared. I know how hard it is. I had a miscarriage a few months ago and now we are praying to get pregnant again and have a healthy baby. I worried a lot my last pregnancy so whenever I get pregnant again I'm going to try my best not to even though I know its almost impossible. Its scary but try and enjoy it and Dont stress yourself out! Stressing is one of the worst things you can do! I pray everything works out for you! Good luck!
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I was the same way I also found out I was pregnant at 5 weeks and every day I thought that every little thing worried me, Iam now 21 weeks and I still get the scare to this day. Social media is one of the main thing that really scare you and Google is the number 1 thing that most doctors will stay away from.
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Im scared becuase i just dont know and probably saw way to much online. What i like even less is that my first appt is dec 22nd. Which is when im almost 9 weeks. That means i have no actual dr to ask questions for. And that appt i dont have an ultrasound. So i wont have an ultrasound probably for a month and a half to 2 months from now. I just want something to know everything is going as planned.
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Because the unknown is very scary. And especially if theres people around you that have had them and you hear their stories. I think its a very natural thought because you care so much about the little life inside you. Im 30 weeks and havent had any other symptoms expect tired and was nauseated in my fiest trimester. Sometimes you just get kucky not everyone has it bad!
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Because the unknown is very scary. And especially if theres people around you that have had them and you hear their stories. I think its a very natural thought because you care so much about the little life inside you. Im 30 weeks and havent had any other symptoms expect tired and was nauseated in my fiest trimester. Sometimes you just get kucky not everyone has it bad!
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I dont get why some girls get scared if they have never expierenced a misscarige its only gonna make u think bad and have bad energy i had a misscarige my first pregnancy but did not expect it im now 36 weeks and my pregnancy is going just fine if u never exp one dont worry!
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I'm 37 weeks today and still freak out about things that can go wrong especially since I was diagnosed with Cholestasis I wish I could look inside my womb and  make sure everything is okay with my little one. I just want him out already!
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Your symptoms will probably become stronger in the next couple weeks !
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I had the sa e symptoms. Just tired and a little nauseated. We are the lucky ones;) its good your not getti g the other stuff lol dont worry!
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Thanks everyone. It think i will feel better after the first ultrasound but i know thats almost 2 months away so that *****. I guess i feel nervous becuase my only symptoms are being more tired than normal and getting a little nauseated at the smell of some foods but no actual sickness. I keep trying to tell myself im only almost 5 weeks i may have not startrd developing all symptoms yet.
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You may also feel better once you get an ultrasound and hear the heartbeat and all that awesome stuff (:
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10504858 tn?1423544346
I felt the same way. I had a stillborn two years ago, so I was really terrified my entire first trimester (even though I spoke to my doctor and she told me that the chances are slim to none that the same thing would happen again) Honestly, I had a very hard time calming down, event though I was told not to stress for sake of the baby. But just talking about it with my boyfriend and close friends could ease my stress. And once my symptoms started showing I felt a little better.
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I'm feeling the SAME way. Especially because I don't have as many symptoms as most on here do. I get waves of nausea, back pain, and my breasts sometimes hurt but nowhere near unmanageable. I'm a little over 7 weeks along now but I want to have my first ultrasound already! I'm beyond impatient.
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Thats so normal!!! You're not alone trust me. Especially if you are a ftm. I was freaking out until I hit 20 weeks and didnt even tell anyone other than my family until 17 weeks. Its just a very scary thing to have a little person inside you. For me the best thing that worked was just thinking of all tthe good things to come as much as possible. Its hard to ignore the negative possibilities but youve got to try because stress is the worst for your little one. Start planning a baby shower maybe ;) pick names.. :) it will get better trust me! You will have a beautiful healthy baby!
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