mother of two pregnant with third unexpectedly

[motheroftwoo]

My husband and I have two children, my youngest is only 14months old and I have been on the pills (as directed) since my son was 6wks. I just found out I am alittle over 8 weeks pregnant. They also found a blood clot in my uterus which apparently has 10-15%  higher miscarriage rate Although I was upset about this pregnancy in the first couple days I realize it is a blessing and everything happens for a reason. I work fulltime and just started college two months ago. I am scared that my plate is extremely full already, anyone else have similar blood clot? What was your outcome? Any advice for an already overtired mother?? My husband works and is gone everyother weekend on call so I do all of the house work, take care of kids with little to no help from him. Any Words of wisdom?

[motheroftwoo]

Congrats on your fourth that is so exciting I am not talented enough to handle four. I wish I could because I love kids I just feel like I am running out of fuel as it is. I wish I could ask friends and family but unfortunately I live 40 mins away from most everyone I am close too. Hopefully we will be moving alittle closer soon though because I realize I really could use the extra help.

[motheroftwoo]

Thank you! It's nice to know I'm not the only one overwhelmed! Congratulations on your pregnancy. And your right a moms work is never done. I need to work more on a schedual for the kids I think in the end that might help more. thank you for your response I really appreciate the feed back.

[jenkaye21]

Good luck to you!  I am pregnant with #4, although ours are all about 3 years apart.  All I can say is that the difference from 1 child to 2 is HUGE, but the difference from 2 to 3 is barely noticeable. = )
Don't be afraid to ask for help, too, from family and friends, both during your pregnancy and especially after.

[chantal21]

I have no info on the blood clot issue, but I know how you feel! I was suprised when I got pregnant with number 2 so quickly after my son. He was only 8 months when I found out. I was terrified! We weren't going to start trying again until close to the end of this year...but I am due in Sept. and they will only be 17 months apart! I get really scared and nervous about how I am going to do it, but I know everything does happen for a reason and I am glad they will be close in age. They will be best friends! =) A mother's work is never finished and the laundry never goes away. But it will all work out and children are a blessing. I have my son (13 months) on a pretty good and regular schedule right now, and just hope and pray it continues once this baby arrives. Take it one day at a time, and don't stress yourself out. You can do it! You were made for this. =) My hubby hardly does things around the house except for laundry and dishes here and there. He has a pretty busy and tiring schedule, so I understand. I do the best I can even though I've been so exhausted with this pregnancy. Congrats! and I hope all continues well for you.