need advice

[Monique230893]

Hi< I really need advice, I had 2 home pregnancy tests which stated that I was pregant I then had an electronic test done which showed that I was 2-3 weeks pregnant, I had cramps and went to a private hospital the doctor said without a scan just a pee test that I am indeed pregnant and that the cramps is from a bladder infection. that was Saturday evening, Monday morning I went for a sonar and the doctor first asked me if I ate something because my acid levels are high and he cannot see anything, he did a scan and a vaginal ultrasound and said that there was no baby and he is 150% sure that i had a miscarriage, but i have not bled or felt pain, is it maybe too soon to show on a sonar and he is just wrong? because Ive had 2 miscarriages before and had to go for EVAC procedures and everything to ensure the particles werent left behind, he did nothing and just said I lost the baby?

[dessy417]

2-3 weeks only? He wouldn't find a heart beat that early they couldn't find a heart beat on me at 9 weeks! he had to do a transvaginal to even find a heart beat on me and he's a very high rated Dr probably the best in my town even has the 3d thing there. I'd say give it a couple weeks then find a different obgyn and try to stay away from acidy stuff and try a ultrasound then I've read that blood usually comes before pain but you'd know more about that than i would, if your not bleeding and have bleed tell him to shove it how can you misscarry and not have all that blood and pain? I'm sorry but i don't like that Dr I'd try a new one, my Dr couldnt find a heart beat at 9 weeks told me to come back and he'd to a ultrasound to see what's going on didn't even do a pregnancy test and never asked if i was for sure i was pregnant best of luck let us know what happens:)