nothing is wrong with being a teen mom

[AndreaMaya]

Im 16 and pregnant i know i should have waited a bit longer but it happenes. I went into shell the other day and the lady was giving me the third degree she asked if i was married how old i was and she was giving me the worst faces when i have her the answers no im not married but i am still with the father. Just because i got pregnant doesnt mean i have to marry him. People at my church too they give me some faces i stop going all together because they act as if there holy when there not. My baby is being taken care of im graduating in may and being a CNA in july done being mad just had to let it out

[AndreaMaya]

Thats true teen moms arent all bad

[marieortiz]

Im 17 and tomorrow i'll be 30weeks (: & I can really care less what other people have to say about me having a baby young they're not supporting me or my son who's on the way then there comments don't matter . But I do hate it when people automatically think just because you're a teen mom you're going to be a bad mom , the word MOTHER has NO age limit (:

[Nina159]

With my son every where I walked a heard whispers and stares at me now his one I'm pregnant with his sister and my sister always with me she 10 when I go out they think she's mine I have my son and I'm pregnant I'm going to be 19 but I look 14 the looks on the  people faces just make me laugh  

[teen_momma]

I'm 14 and pregnant with a baby boy I'm due on July 31 ...?!

[AndreaMaya]

All your comments are nice. I dont go to parties i never liked them. I want to be a good mom i know it wil be a hard journey but i know i can do it. Thank you all of you

[Niqueniq]

I'm 17 and a teen mom eight months today I just look at people when they judge me because most of their parents where teen parents so they just look stupid to me I'm doing better than ever and I will continue to

[ravenamaru]

MyFirst Was Born When I Was 17. I Didn't Get Much. IThink That People Judge AnY Mother... Honestly, Can You All Say You Never Saw A BrAtty Child And Said Uhhggggggg What A Horrible Set Of Parents.

[elivya]

Young or old even inbetween, you get looks. I was 19 when I had my first and 21 having our 2nd, when I told my grandfather we was expecting again, he looked at melike you idiot!! And didnt say a word and shook his head looked down and walked away, I nearly cried!  I dont mind the dirty looks ive goten but some comments, I can never forgive.

[Bentleysmommy18]

I'm a teen mommy & wife!! Met my husband at 14, got pregnant at 16!:) our son will be 2 when our next son is born in august! Same due date as with our first! We got married last December and I'll be 19 with 2 kids and a husband! Just moved into our first house about 2 weeks ago!

Nothing wrong with being a teen mom! You just have to prove to yourself and everyone else that you will be one of the good teen moms instead of the partying kind that leaves their kid with anyone who will keep it!

I've never left my son with anyone for more than an hour and he is 20 months old!

By the way I'm 18 and my husband is 21! We are very mature and great parents! It's just gotta be your #1 priority for parenting to be done right!

[2nd_princess]

I'm not a teen mum I am 24 but I still get the looks and whispers when I am out with my 3yr old and they notice my bump. The other day I took my 1yr old nice to pick my daughter up from nursery we went to the shop and 2 old ladies were staring and whispering my daughter noticed it as well I just turned and told them to stop being so judgemental and assuming things as you don't know my life or my story so keep your comments to yourself but they still did it so to wind them up I was like there is another child at home with his grandad who is also mine. (He is my nephew)

[hartt_selena]

Im 24 and have ben mairred almost 4 years. And people still think in 16. I get the looks and comments. And I just simply tell them im 24 and mairred. You should see the look on there face when they realize.  There judgment was wrongly. Im 38 weeks pregnant.  People think my younger sisteris older than me. I was in the docters office and yhe docter asked if my husband was my father. I laughed and said im 9 months older. The Docters face went pail. Lol. And he aapologized.  I laugh at it later. But when it happens.  Its not so funny

[Sandersss]

You know what, in this world you can't be worrying about the people around you. You do you, and be the best mom you can be. Yeah you're young ...so what, having a baby is hard at any age. So don't worry, and for all the people at your church to stare and judge you, so what. Only God will be your judge, so their opinions don't matter. You seem very responsible, already almost done with school and everything. So you go girl!! If they're not proud of you, well i sure am!

[drinkybabyxx]

I woulda just been like what's it to you lady lol

[twinmamaxx]

I was a teen mum got pregnant at 15 and yet I had all those looks of ppls disapproval but I jst ignored them n today I'm 21 and pregnant with bbys number 4&5 and I don't care what ppl think my kids are perfect in my eyes !! I'm a gd mum so who r they to judge x

[Pooka100211]

My sister was a teen mom. She got pregnant at 15 and her kids are well taken care of. Who cares what other people think about you beung a teen mom. Dont let the people you run into at stores or church ruin your spirts. Alot of people support teen moms. And I'm one of them. Good luck sweetheart

[jessicaavaloss1]

Im 18 and im pregnant with a baby girl , I havent gotten no comment from anybody yet , im 35 weeks pregnant and I also just graduated high school last year in may nd I went right to college nd im graduating this Saturday coming up from college as a ccma , I am very proud of my self yes I live with my parents but I think ive accomplished alot for being young nd I also got offered a job @ wic still debating tho , goodluck tho girl people always talk , do you nd **** the rest sorry for cussing but its true .

[LaurLeigh]

I think people react that way because they know how hard it is being an adult and having a child, let alone being much much younger. It's hard at any stage in life. But being younger, you are just getting to know yourself, who you want to be, where you want to go in life. It's a huge juggle. But there's no looking back now. It may be easy to think having a baby is rainbows and sunshine, but it will be one of the hardest things you will ever do in life. And the most rewarding. If you took on the responsibility of getting pregnant so young, then you have to accept people's negative judgments. Raise your head high and say yes I'm graduating, yes the baby is well provided for, yes I will try my best to be a good mother, and yes I am strong. Rise above the insults,looks and whispers and shine on. Because thatthat's the best for you and baby.

[courtney111310]

I still live with my parents and he with his mom :/ its gonna be difficult but thats life just take it day by day ^.^ and yeah she was really mean

[AndreaMaya]

I would have told that lady to shove the card right were the sun dont shine. How mean. My dad wont let me live with my boyfriend but thats okay because were both young still

[doulamommy]

I don't know if I count... I was nineteen when I had my daughter. I had been married for over a year. I think the comments about the wedding were the worst though. I got married a month after I graduated high school to the love of my life. I was raised by a super conservative family that does not believe in sex before marriage and especially not cohabitation outside of marriage!
I kept the secret of being sexually active until after the wedding, but we were planning to get married anyway, we just pushed the date up because I really wanted to live with him and my family just wouldn't approve. Everyone assumed the only reason we would get married so young was because I was knocked up, when in reality I didn't get pregnant for eight months after our wedding. People freaking su.ck.

[brenichelle]

I'm 15 and pregnant .. 14 at conception and people are just now starting to notice at school. They're actually happy I thought I would get made fun of.

[courtney111310]

Im studying to take it :3 ill be ready for it after my little angel is here and thanks :) I just try to ignore people and their judgemental comments...I had an older lady give me an adoption agency card saying if I want whats best for my little girl to give her a call....I ripped it in half and told her to f off...

[AndreaMaya]

Mumma2bee that sounds great im 35weeks waiting for my baby girl to arrive im not going to prom because i wanna be with my baby. But i got her a graduation dress so she will go with me to my graduation i want her to look up to me i want her to finish school just like me i want her to be proud of me

[kelleyrenee]

Its because you're so young, you're not suppose to be a mother yet that's why people look at you like OMG.