opinions pls

[mamiluvsu_monkeybutt]

Hey everyone so I'm 12 weeks today and well my baby dad doesn't want anything to do with my baby and people keep telling me to give it that he will come around which at one point I thought he did but now he is saying he doesn't want it again. So I guess my question is do ya think he will come around or should I just prepare myself to be a single mom and is being a single mom more harder?

[tiredtiny]

It is hard being a single mom. Single with just on kid is a freakin breeze though after you've gotten use to what its like to be a mom.
I ve got three kids, single kid was fine and great for me I had such a great time just with my son then I had twins and it got extremely hard!
and don't let it be a "its no big deal " kind of thing because then he'll take it that way.
talk to him but don't push too hard. Maybe he's just scared. Think of all the possible things that maybe going thru Mind Mind.

[V_Marie123]

It's crazy how guys get us women preggo..and just leave like it's nothing..my baby daddy didn't want me to have my baby cause he has kids and we were always arguing n general..I didn't wanna get stressed out n loose my baby soi left him..he changed and said he wanna be back together but me n my mom raised my sisters baby very well without him having his father..my nephew gets everything and we have a strong support group for him..so I kno if me n my bd breakup..it wouldn't bother me being single parent cause I have help..guys r full of ****..and tho my bd is changing for our relationship..I may still leave him before my child is born cause I kno we might clash real bad again..and says hurtful dumb things..when he's really not about nothing..so do what's best for u..I believe single parenting is hard but millions of women deal with it..my friend is raising 5 kids on her own not one of her bds help her..ur guys going in and out of your life is stressful..

[mamiluvsu_monkeybutt]

He changes his mind a lot one day he doesn't want it the next day he does and the following day he doesn't I'm just scared that if I make his mind up for him my baby will grow up hating me and since I'm in school also it's more stressful I have no one to help me out...not how I pictured my first pregnancy at all

[mamiluvsu_monkeybutt]

He changes his mind a lot one day he doesn't want it the next day he does and the following day he doesn't I'm just scared that if I make his mind up for him my baby will grow up hating me and since I'm in school also it's more stressful I have no one to help me out...not how I pictured my first pregnancy at all

[Aaron_N_SophiasMommy]

Single might be easier than having to deal w/ someone who could be in and out of the yalls life. You can always file for child support.

[katierylenava]

My son is now 4 and I've been a single mother the whole time. Yes its hard. Your Going to want and need help but no ones there. Honestly though I would not of had it any different. The bond I have with my son is amazing. We are so close. Now pregnant with baby #2 and looks like ill be mostly by myself. I really don't mind. If you know you can do it you will. As for the Guy. Hes more likely to come back around when the baby is here.(in my opinion) guys are difficult. You can do it either way. :-) I hope everything works out foe you