Lmao when I first asked my bf he said hell no but today I asked him again and he didn't have an objection. He doesn't want me to rip either lol
I just asked my bf I pretty much explained it all pretty and he was fine till I said the word anus lmao
Hahah I just asked my boyfriend and he said the same thing noo way !
I asked my bf to do this for me and it was a big h.ell no. Lol he was like sorry babe I'm not rubbin your gooch (what he calls it)
Just dip your thumb in oil and put it inside your vagina, pressing down towards your anus and rub back in forth in kind of a u motion
Found this online..maybe it'll help. I'm super afraid of tearing too!
Studies show that perineal massage reduces your chance of tearing during birth. Just rub sunflower, olive oil, vitamin E oil or coconut oil into the skin between your vagina and anus once or twice a day, starting from around 34 weeks onwards. Place your (or your partner's) thumbs shallowly into your vagina (no more than three to four centimetres) and press the perineal floor down towards the bowel and to both sides until you feel a slight burning or stretching sensation. Maintain the pressure for about a minute before resting.