my husband and i r trying to conceive. i've been really tired, bloated, have tender (but not sore) breasts, and headaches. my pds are fairly short normally (4 days, 5 max), cramping is usually intense for the first day or two. unfortunatly, i just started my pd 3 days ago, but cramping has been just about non-existant. the bleeding is slowing down and showing signs of possibly being almost over. is it possible for women to have periods during the first month or two and still be pregnant? or is it just wishful thinking on my part. my mother says that she had a period while pregnant with me for the first 3 months.