really need to vent ;(

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i really sadd & depressed im 7weeks pregnant & the babys father & we have been together for a year & a couple of months not very long .. but anyway he not in love with mee at all & it makes me so sadd to know this because we've been together for long & for him not to be in love with mee really hurts i just want know how to deal with this .. can anyone help ???

september25 · Answer

im sorry you guys i just saw that you all wonderful women responded :) im currently stayin with my mom to have some space between us i have a doctors appointment cominn upp on Wednesday so i figure i'll just text him & let him know .. but thanks you all againn love ya ! & have a wonderful pregnancy

MamaBear0612 · Answer

I would tell him that, that he needs some time to figure out what he wants, and then go and stay with your mom or something. You'll probably be a lot happier around somebody who does love you and is happy all the time, than with a guy you're constantly arguing with.

newmommy2240 · Answer

Hey there, I am 15 weeks and 2 days pregnant. This is my 1st and my mans 5th. I am expierancing almost the same as u. He found out I was preg. He was freakinggg out. I was suer excited. Since I told him, he's wayyyy diff. We aren't the same we were. Im not gonna make him be here he's got to want to. But I feel im in this together if things don't change, its time to be single. Im prayin for u if u need to chat im here...I can sooo relate.

ms_feb · Answer

like what the above said how about give him some space & let him figure out what he really want.. i know its hard but same time try to be strong for ur baby..talking to family & friends will help to take ur mind of it. u can always message me im here for u:)

sghlg · Answer

I agree with pecosa521 just take time for yourself my aunt was in a similar situation (kinda worst actually) I told her she needs time for herself to get herself mentally prepared to have another beautiful baby...she didn't listen and it just got worst just remember that your baby is a beautiful gift that alot of women can't have so stay as calm as possible it will hurt but it can't hurt as much as arguing with him everyday keep him posted on how the bby is if u can't over the phone then a txt will due...I hope the best for you and I hope everything works out I'm sorry your going through this

pecosa521 · Answer

That's tough considering ur having a baby together, I was in a relationship for 4 years & one night in front of everyone he told his sister he didn't know what love was! U can imagine how I felt when I heard that & everyone just stared at me, we had been together for almost 3years at the time! He had been telling me he loved me but not very often throughout our relationship, it hurt! I broke up with him & as soon as he realized he lost me or could lose me, he was begging for another chance & saying he loved me but our relationship was so damaged by that time & he wasn't the nicest Guy so I ended it which was for the best cause now I'm in such a loving relationship with my husband! With ur situation, u have a child ur bringing into the world so my suggestion would be maybe to separate urself from him (not completely ) but just some space & see how he reacts! Sometimes they need to see how it would be without u to appreciate u!! Good luck!!

september25 · Answer

noo havent .. we actually been fightin & arguinn these last couple of weeks & today went the whole day without arguin so i thought everything was ok until he said i love yu but im not in love with you jus broke my heart ;(

ms_feb · Answer

Aww I'm sorry to hear that Hun..have u guys talk? Maybe he is just in shock about the pregnancy? Not good for u stressing like this especially this early of pregnancy...