So this is my second child but since my daughter is a toddler wearing 5 year olds cloths I have no infant items to speak of not even a crib, bassinet changing table I do have a grocery bag or less of newborn cloths and thats it the reason I'm scared is because with my toddler I started going into preterm labor around 30 weeks they stopped them with her but last night I started having contractions (only 25 weeks) they stopped it temporarily but they started back up again they now have me on nifedipine twice daily but I'm still feeling the lower back pain and abdominal pain of contractions like i said I'm not ready for her to come yet