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sex and toys vent

So I am 28 weeks pregnant with my second boy and I am already so huge it is so hard to find a good position durring sex that actually gives me release. I asked my husband if I got a toy if he would use it on me and he freaked out... I am so mad. Why is it okay for men to beat off for release when ever they want to but if a pregnant woman wants satisfaction she's demonized!! This is such bull. Sorry if this is TMI but I needed to vent for a minute.
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3077314 tn?1400673108
He may have gotten mad because he feels that you are asking because he's not pleasing you. Try to explain to him that this is something you want to do together and give him something in return. If not my favorite is to use the bathtub facet right before I take a bath. I let the water run on a low pressure and it feels better than any vibrater and my husband has no idea.
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Just tell him that u want to try something new. And also try and add maybe new positions anything u can think up so that ur more comfortable.
I was very uncomfortable and in pain for I while I held off sex then one day it stopped hurting when we did become intimate.

And if u want sex toys ill give u 10% off on my store, I haven't put much time I to it so bare with me lol
Ill write it out spaced out or else it'll get blocked lol
W w w. K i n k n p i n k. I n fo
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2144283 tn?1399574094
Just get one hun. I already have one from before pregnancy. My partner doesnt care but even if he did tough luck! He masturbates when it pleases him . So I do the exact same. Women are just as entitled to sexual pleasure and you should not let your hubby take that away from you!
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1688492 tn?1346364370
AWWWW I WOULD GET ONE ANYWAYS, DID YOU EXPLAIN TO HIM THAT ITS BECAUSE YOUR PREGNANT??? IVE ASKED MY HUSBAND ABOUT TOYS ALSO AND HE JUST LOOKS AT ME LIKE YOUR A FREAK, BUT I KNOW DOWN DEEP HE IS TOO HES JUST VERY SHY AND DOESNT WANT TO ADMIT IT, AND I KNOW HE IS BC ONE DAY I WAS LIKE BABE LETS HAVE SEX HE SAID NO, I WAS PISSED I SAID OK LETS HAVE ANAL"WHICH WE HAVE NEVER DONE, AND HES NEVER DONE EVER WITH ANYONE" AND HIS EYES LIT UP LIKE SERIOUSLY HE WAS LIKE HARD IN 2 SECONDS IT WAS SOO FUNNY I WAS DYING LAUGHING N I SAID YOUR A FREAK AND I KNEW IT!! WE BEEN TOGETHER JUST 2 YEARS AND MARRIED 1
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