so f'in confused!!!

[Bfranz537]

Monday morninf i will be having my little girl, well my boyfriend has decided to start ****** up again. New years he came home from "work" ( he drives a cab ) high and when he passed out this girl he dispatches for the cab company kept sending him text messages... that got my mind wondering so i get on his facebook and come to find out he has not only been talking to a girl he "cheated" on me with about two years ago, but he has been trying to track down his ex. I mean he asked like 10 people if tgey had seen her and if they new a phone number for her... i mean he has come such a long ways from who he was when we first got together to who i thought he was now, i just dont get why he would want to do this to us, why he would not care enough about me or us that he just puts it all on the line. It makes me ******* sick that i gave and continue to give him so much of me. I know im not trapped because im having his baby but i feel somewhat obligated to try to work it out because we owe it to our child, its just with having gone through so much in the past with him i am completely over the games and have no motivation to even go down that road with him.... wtf am i suppose to even think????

[marteaga17]

Yeah, don't put up with it. You can do it all on your own. There are so many resources out there to help single moms. He's not going to change and you don't need that influence on your baby. It's going to be hard enough adjusting to life with a baby,  that he's only going to stress you out and make life horrible for you.  

[candie6]

I know exactly what you mean just reading your post n comment I felt like I was going through it all over again n wanted to cry n even got anger I could feel in my tummy :(( I hate that you are going through this especially pregnant no one deserves that but honestly n I really mean this be strong leave now keep it up don't go back because he's ready to sweet talk n paint an image about how he wants a family for real now or anything like that you deserve to be happy and appreciated one day you will find a guy who truly love you a real man to be by your side and you will realize that although you loved your baby's father the way he loved you wasn't right n u had to walk away you can't find mister right by sticking with mister wrong

[Bfranz537]

Thanks, just breaks my heart, ive told him so many times before if your not happy or if i just cant give you what you need, then just leave, have atleast some respect for me and not put me through the lies and deceit.. just leave. I hate him for making me feel like no matter what i will never be enough, and i know i am a damn good woman to him. He wont find someone who would ever have his back like i do.

[Nellyzz]

gosh id be p I s s e d!!!!!! I've been cheated on it hurts. I always told my bf if u want out do it like a man. if u cheat u wont be seeing ur kid! dont put up with it. just dont. cos if u do or if he thinks he can keep getting away with it. he will keep doing it.. just dont put up with it. your only hurting your child by staying in a broken relationship..dont stay with the guy because of a baby hun alotta girls do and they are miserable!!! do wat u believe is right for your child and yourself. all the best hun. :)

[candie6]

Some men never change do not feel obligated to stay because of your daughter I am 22 weeks pregnant with a little girl  n my bf has cheated many times before we decided to settle down n plan this baby but I tell him I would leave him for good if he ever did it now because I don't wanna show my daughter that it's okay to stay with someone who doesn't put your feelings first I'm sure you will be fine I know it's hard but really so many women have left and say they are so much happier single or even find a better man n they say they shouldve done it sooner don't be with someone who doesn't respect you be strong you deserve better than a guy like that  remember that