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stressed :(
Im 7 weeks pregnantt nd im 15 yes i know im young. But im becoming so responsible for the baby like takin care of my self doin way better in school to show my mom that ill grow up nd not put it on my mom . But all she does to me is talk crap to me how im stupid nd cant do this and that . Then shell be all nice nd say ill support yu blah blah then at me more talk more nd she was nice enought to let my bf move in nd today she kicked him out for no reason . Like we already talked abt the pregnancy she was mad but she told him he can stay nd help him get his own place since hes 18 now nd all of a sudden everything fell apart :( it makes me cry nd them my stoamach starts hurting. I just dont know what to do.
Your mom is gonna be angry for awhile. As much as you want her support, you have to find a way of doing it on your own. Some mind sets are if you were big enough to do it, you can do it on your own. I'm not saying don't depend on your bf, but be smart that not every baby dad stays to finish what they done. Your could tell you what might happen but you have to prove her that not everyone is the same. Be smart n wise, stay in school n focus in yourself n the baby. Cause no one is gonna do it for yo. Good luck
Im 17, nearly 30 weeks pregnant.. Proud of you girl for being strong, I know what its like going through all that.. Its so stressful when the parents argue with you and yell at you. It all gets better in the end.. Its going to be hard at times and you will get crap from school friends and older women, just got to learn to ignore them, focus on yourself and bub!
It was hard to tell her i just txted her while i was at school lol. Worst mistake i came home to a pist mother. I just havent told my dad kus hell throw a fit . Nd may call the cops on my bf like he said he wud :/ or press charges on my mom for lettin him in the house for it to happen..
i know how you feel im 16 and dont have the balls to tell my mom yet and she keeps saying im so glad its not you i feel terrible but youre doing better than i am at least you told her.
Not really i barly went to get refeared to the ob but they said i have to take a blood test first so im just waiting for the results now.
Have you spoken to your doctor? It won't help the situation at home, but may give you a chance to get things off your chest. I really hope it works out okay sweet. X
Thanks guys , i have tried talking to her but shes the type you cant talk to w.out having an argument and i understand she has every right to be upset at me . But she just tells me this is my fault your bf is gunna leave yu grow up hes 18 he dnt need yu blah blah . She acts like she doesnt care how i feel i know she does she just dont know how to show it and it hurts my feeling bad because shd knows how to say sone hateful things that tears me down.
You are still a baby your self 15 still quit alot to learn in life but you kind of speeding it things up for you you going to learn them quick and unfortunantly with a stressful way bcs no one is happy with you getting prego at a such young age so you need to be strong brave and brave and brabe thats what you will need
Being stressed out in early pregnancy isn't good for you or your baby, have you tried sitting down with your mum and talking about it all properly, about how she is making you feel? Maybe you could write her a letter if you feel it will be too difficult talking at first. It's hard for parents to accept that their babies are growing up. You are her baby, doesn't matter how old you are. But if you feel fully prepared for this baby and you are willing to stay in school and work hard then don't let all this bring you down. Yes you are young, but if you feel that you can do it, then do it. Don't let people hurt your feelings. I hope it all works out for you. And that your boyfriend will continue to support you. It will take time for your mum to get used to the idea, but try not to stress too much. I know it's easier said than done though. All the best. X
:(! I cant imagine how you must feel! Just stay strong though because at the end of the day your doing better in school and being more responsible is for you and your family. 15 is dead young but you seem to ne coping amazingly, if amything you should try and sit down with your mam and tell her you need her support right now and nothing less! Im sure she will come round though
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