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threatened Miscarriage

I was at work today, just sitting there and felt like i had to pee. When i stood up blood went everywhere and I started cramping even worse. So i called my hubby and had him come get me, closed my store and went to ER. They didn't do ANYTHING. They checked my HCG and I have to go back and get it redrawn in 2 days. They wouldn't do an ultrasound or listen to the heart beat because my doctor did one in office yesterday. I'm on bed rest and not allowed to have sex. They basically gave me a paper saying I have a 50/59 chance of miscarrying. Wtf does that mean? Do I still have a healthy baby or not? Why the hell am I bleeding? They couldn't give me ANY ANSWERS!!!!


I am so damn scared.... I can't loose this baby too.
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Aw, I'm so happy for you! I wish you the best!
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5640933 tn?1374342164
Aww what brilliant news xx
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Doc called in an ultrasound today, and my little baby was movin and wiggling all around, heart rate at 174, and measuring at 9+4 even though im 10 weeks today. But i will take it :) still don't know why i was bleeding, waiting on doc to get the ultrasound sent back to his office. But my baby had a big head and belly and tiny little stubs for arms and legs lol....

Let's just say mommy was very happy today :)
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4715985 tn?1371582997
Its always good that the bleeding slowed that! Its one positive for all the negatives ur facing :) i hope ur dr gets you in today...or tomorrow. At least sooner then four weeks! Keep resting and hopefully everything settles down quickly :) just keep trying to think positively
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Just a quick update... Bleeding has slowed but cramping and back pain still present. Waiting on my OB to call back today.
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And my job wants me to.quit
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I'm sorry to hear tht I went through the same thing. Last Saturday I was at wrk and I had to pee and blood was there. I left work.went.to.the er w, my hubby and they said everything okay but if I miscarried they can't do nothing bout it. And I won't are my doctor till the 19 /:
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I went to er because i ws spotting n this is ma second pregnancy but the first i had a miscarriage 3 years ago. N the doctor ws super nice i ws there for 5 hrs but ws worth it he did blood drawn, pelvic exam and two ultrasounds. The lady who did ultrasound ws nice she even showed me n ma fiancé the babies heart beat. But i live in California so idk if its different in other states.
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I'm 10 weeks and my OB doesn't want to see me until my next appointment on sept 6th. If this baby dies i don't want to go through 4 weeks with a dead baby inside of me. This is freaking stupid. I am mad, hurt, crying, hyper ventilating, it's stupid they are making me do this.
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4715985 tn?1371582997
Just keep breathing honey. Stay on bedrest no matter what, drink lots of water.....you just have to stay as calm as you can and try to keep yourself from stressing so much!
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I had bleeding at 13 weeks. They said the same thing to me. Basically they are giving you a percentage of the chances that you will miscarry and chances the pregnancy will progress further. I went to the er as well and didn't give any answers at all. They told me to make an appointment with my ob the next day. Where I was basically told to wait and see cuz thats all they could do. How far along are you?
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5611769 tn?1392093375
I'd call your doctor and get in as soon as possible or go back to the hospital and make them do an ultrasound or go to a different hospital cause that sounds like a miscarriage to me and my hospital did an emergency ultrasound when I went in for bleeding but that was 4 years ago I had a miscarriage
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