having a baby because you feel like something is missing in your life...i feel....is a wrong reason to have a baby. make sure you know whats missing in your life. maybe its an education. your my age.....go to college. make something of yourself. get married. get a house...then have a baby. being 19 and having a baby is in no way easy. do something with your life. there have been way to many stories about how girls feel somethings missing in their life so they bring a child into this world and it turns out to be something totally diferent then what they expected
How far along were you with the pregnancy? If it was early you might not need a d & c. Dont be worried about going to the doctor. they are trained to deal with this sort of thing! And remember if it is tubal the earlier they catch it the better. Just insist to the doctor to check just incase and if they wont do anything ask for a second opinion. You could even go to the hospital as they will be better equipped to check for this. If this pregnancy is tubal it needs to be dealt with. And don't worry it will happen for you eventually. Good luck! x
Go to the ER...thats what i did when i was bleeding...did you take a pregnancy test prior to the bleeding and get a positive?
no not yet i dont know where to go for one i want to have kids i love my husbands with all my heart but it would be joyful to have one from my own stomach you know im afraid ill never get pregnant i know that im only 19 and that means im young but i just feel like im missing something in my life.
Well honey don’t be scared because if it is tubal it could ruin your tubes and then you may never get pregnant. Trust me on that. I was lucky and caught mine before my tube ruptured. Did you get a d & c or anything?
not to mention that ive already been pregnant once and lost it and it just doesn't feel like my last miscarriage did
i started bleeding and im in alot of pain and im just still having alot of symtoms and my husband who has one child already and my friend who does to says it could be a tubal preganancy and im kinda scareed and afraid to go to the doctor about it
First i am sorry for your loss :( if it was a tubal it would be very painful i had one and i had so much pain. yes you can have children, if you beleive it is a tubal you need to have it treated so your tubes dont burst or you loss too much tube i caught mine about 4 weeks along when i started bleeding and had tons of pain and a vaginal ultrasound found my tubal. but yes you can have children i am now pregnant again after having a tubal june 2008. What makes you think its a tubal? after a miscarriage it takes time for the symptoms to go away. best of luck to you...