ugh plz grow up!

[alexaviorsmommy]

So my hubby's sister decided to invite her friend over and she has 2 kids which I wouldn't mind but I ALWAYS end up watching them cause she doesn't and now she invites her self to the beach with us and I know ima be the one watching her kids because the fact that I'm pregnancy they think I can't have fun like what the he'll I want to enjoy the beach not worry about someone else's kids drowning!!!

[alexaviorsmommy]

We have told her before but she doesn't really care and shows up..  today was OK at the beach but her daughter wouldn't leave me alone and was being so mean to the younger ones but I just ignored it

[KTowne]

^ I agree with that one, if you're not comfortable doing it, ask your husband to do it for you!

[mrssandefur]

I'd definitely tell her AND your sister, if she can't watch her.own kids she isn't welcome over. And as far as throwing stuff or punching me ESP my tummy, my 1 and 2 yr old both know better, they know better then to do it at all but still.

[Shannonrene]

Why doesn't your man stand up and say something its his sister?

[MamaBear0612]

I agree, find somewhere else to be when she comes over. She's taking advantage of you, and will do so until you refuse to watch her kids.

[Arica88]

:O SOBER.!? I know I can't be the only one who caught that. wow how does she still have her kids?

[Arica88]

:O SOBER.!? I know I can't be the only one who caught that. wow how does she still have her kids?

[laceylace_2004]

I wouldn't go with her to the beach, and when she came over, I would leave. She knows she can take advantage of you so she is going to do it whenever she can.

[alexaviorsmommy]

Yea I mean she doesn't ask me to watch them but if I don't well they would both probably wouldn't be here she let's them run outside by them selves so I feel it's necessary that I step in but you are right once my baby is Here I can't be doing this so I think I'm going to try to just ignore them and enjoy my day I just hope nothing happens cause I probably will go completely sycho on this lady lol

[Morrisfamily2012]

I agree with ktowne. You just need to make her take responsibility. You can still supervise the kids, but not you soley.

[KTowne]

Tell her plain and simple, you're not watching them, or she will continue to walk all over you, when your baby comes you're not going to be able to do this, right? So put your foot down now!

[alexaviorsmommy]

I would but I'm scared they are going to hurt them selves and I will feel guilty for it or be blamed because I'm the only one who will Be sober

[KTowne]

Simple, just don't watch them! I don't care if they're running all over the earth, they're her kids, make her deal with them, and don't give in! Just enjoy your day at the beach as if she and her kids weren't there!

[alexaviorsmommy]

Yea she just is so ughhh lol she needs to grow up herself before she has anymore kids and I love kids but hers I can Not stand to be around because the way they behave

[parkersmommy]

Really because my three year old son, three year old nephew, and two year old nephew know better than to hit or throw things at me in general but I make them behave

[alexaviorsmommy]

I've yelled at them once because the youngest who is 3 decided to throw a fit and punch me in my tummy so I freaked out and started screaming for her to sit down and not to come near me and her mom told me I shouldn't be so mean and heartless cause she's just a baby and doesn't know what she did could hurt my unborn

[parkersmommy]

Yell at them and when she says something about it tell her if she doesn't like the way you parent her kids maybe she should do it

[alexaviorsmommy]

I know she does she it makes me angry that she doesn't know how to parent her kids they are old enough to know better but the throw stuff at me all the time and it takes all I have not to yell at them but all she does is sit their and text or talk on her phone and I live 2 hours from the beach so whenever I get the chance I love to go

[Morrisfamily2012]

She needs to mom up and take responability for her own kids. Personally there is nothing enjoyable about the beach to me, i'd rather not go if I knew I had to babysit. I'm 30 weeks and have been twice this summer. I think that's enough. I live 10 minutes from it though.