That's messed up he would even say that. Mine won't even let me carry any bags inside. He lets me do the shopping and he loads the car and takes everything in the house. Some men are so clueless and only care about themselves. Like really is it that hard for to open the door?
Awe, I am sorry he is making you feel that way. No man should make you feel that way especially when you are carrying his baby! I would sit down and tell him that the things he says hurts you and explain why.