He's also super sweet and loving the few minutes a day he spends with me, telling me I'm pretty and saying my stretchmarks don't matter and such but at times he completely negates that by saying stupid stuff like how I better tighten it back up after the baby or how its my fault i got stretchmarks because I didn't eat healthier :( It's like really, man??
I'm 38 weeks tomorrow and my fiance is a sweet guy but when he gets off work he stays in the front room all day and smokes weed or drinks with his brother until midnight to one oclock in the morning and it seems he only comes in the room and ackbowledges me when he needs something in the room and he only decides to come and stay in the room when he's so tired and its so late he passes out instantly. Its really depressing cuz we barely have any time left as nonparents with alone time and I feel like he's wasting it all :(
I feel the same way....I am now 8 days away from my due date, and I'm sick as a dog, and feel like everyone else and everything else is ire important to my fiance...I mean he definitely does some wonderful things for me, but I just feel like I'm last priority and I should be first....at least till the baby comes...I feel like he just wants to marry me because I got pregnant.
Wow, I'm not the only one. Well its a good thing we have each other... I get that way too and my.bf has been acting moody and distant. I just ignore it. He says im so beautiful and how sexy i am but he doesn't touch me. And with so many other personal problems going on he gets mad and leaves to his moms because he can always run away there. But wee can be here for each other. You ladies can always message me.
I am a ftm and my husband is in the military. I got pregnant while he came home for Xmas leave. I feel so alone and sad a lot because I hardly get to talk to him and I'm bummed out we are not getting to experience this together. But I guess that just comes with being a military wife
Oh yeaaa sheesh theirs days and mornings i coukd cry or be mad about nothing or by far not liking my husband when i firat wake up in the am and like my husband keeps telling me not to blow up(get huge), it makes me not even wanna talk to him when he said that it also hurts my feelings like dude do you not know our baby is growing in me -.- I just walk away and cry to myself
your not alone and we all pregnant mommies to be feel your hurt keep your head up and keep pushing through Xoxo Sammy.
I totally know the feeling and it *****... hang in there. There's alot of great ppl who want to support you. Try join a church, support group, take a class, etc... im working on putting myself out there it's not easy but it can be rewarding
I feel loved and unloved all within an hr. I cried from feeling sad and alone. Later that hour I cried from being happy. I cry when I watch the news. I just cant stop crying.
Your not alone... talk to your baby. It helps alot. Im writing a letter of promises to my baby boy. It makes me feel empowered.
You don't have to be alone.
I couldn't agree more with you, especially tonight. It's one of those not so great days. My best friend/sister left for an almost 2 year mission right before I found out. My bf left me when he found out. And the father (my ex who I was with previously for 5 years) wants nothing to do with me. Don't have any support from my mother either. SO. I am right there with you miss. Just know that we're strong women doing this alone together I suppose ♡
I understand you girls on feeling unloved , im 23 weeks with second baby and i feel like my bf jus doesnt care anymore . He leaves for hours and when hes home its like he isnt happy anymore ...
I'm there now. I'm 25 weeks with my first baby and I've been feeling depressed. My husband points out how much weight I have gained and I get self conscious about it, even though I know I have a growing baby inside me. Also I've been feeling unwanted and unloved by him like nothing matters to him anymore.
I know how you feel I've gotten pretty depressed during this pregnancy but my bf has been helpful and I'm almost 35 weeks that's spirit lifting! It's gets better just don't be too down
I agree. I am emotional and cry all the time. I feel like my fiancé points everything out the is changing in my body and I feel so unloved and alone!