when marriage is falling apart and ur expecting the 4th

[lilangel14]

Idk what else to do.. and I feel if I tell a family member is tmi for they to know. I'm have try for the last 3 years to save my marriage we have struggle a lot and this year I thought things were better, we even got pregnant!!! AGAIN!!! Well my husband bought a new phone and he just can get his hands off it. He is always on f**** Facebook and talkin with his friends... It has been a week in a row that we go to sleep without saying goodnight cuz he is on the phone. And when I wake up he is not by my side anymore and I always find him on the coach with his phone.. Idk what to do.. should I ask him to choose between Fb or his family? He dosnt pay attention to me anymore or his kids and that is just crazy. The other day he even forgot to pick up his son from school. I feel Really upset I mean how is a stupid website more important.

[crisfigg]

I mean screw the whole phone thing but forgetting your son at school is the icing on the cake for me! Wth was he thinking?!

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[KTowne]

I agree with FreshLove and BabyinJuly, I don't know about being in the middle of the night on FB, there's only so much you can do on there, I'm not sure if you're worried about him cheating or not, and certainly not trying to put it in your head, but from an outsider looking in, that's what it sounds like. I would definitely talk to him about it, or ask him to see his phone, if he gets sensitive about it, then he's got something to hide, or check the phone bill. I don't think you're overreacting at all, and I would definitely tell him to spend more time with you and less with the phone. Good luck hun!

[mandamouse21]

Mine loves to stay on WOW ( world of warcraft) I don't really care he stays on it. Btw imvu is a 3d virtual chat room. You can play role playing but its really just a chat room. I know bc I had one myself for years till I met my fiance now. And I understand bein on fb all day I'm always looking at a buy sell trade site on there and I'm on fb a lot so it could be nothing. And my fiance does zone out when playing he looses track of time and everything,

[faye83]

It's just a phone, I think your hormones are making you to overreact. What would you rather he do, be next to you with the phone or be out drinking with his buddies till 3am?

[lilangel14]

O Wow really sounds like my story.. Yea I don't understand what is it that they get to much into something. I'm glad ur SIL was able to help u. I'm guessing my brother could help me they are really close. Never thought about that since I was a lil embarrasade to tell them our problem. Thanks a lot for ur help.

[mommybear0710]

My husband and I had a similar problem 2 years ago with a FB game called IMVU he would come home and stay up playing it and wouldn't sleep the same time I did so after constant fights and being mad at each other all the time I talked to his sister and told her what was going on and that I was about to pack up our kids and leave him, she told him that he was an idiot and was about to lose his family over a stupid game to pull his head out of his butt. He always thought I wouldn't leave but when she talked to him he realized I was really leaving so he stopped with the computer and started putting the effort in to fix our relationship. Now we are very happy and even had another baby girl. Maybe have someone he respects talk to him.

[lilangel14]

Thanks Everyone that took the time to write me back.. I feel so sensitive and don't want to keep crying I know its not good for the baby. Thank u for ur advise and writing a letter sounds like a better idea since I don't want this to get big. And Yea definitely he is on fb he does it in front of me and I even have his password.

@capriciousangel- thank u so much for ur words and for sharing ur story I'm glad u were able to work it out. Also I'm so jealous of u.. u r almost about to meet your baby I'm only 19 weeks half way to go.

[FreshLove]

I agree with babyinjulu, most high schoolers I know don't even spend that much time on FB, that's weird!? But either way, no matter what site(s) he is visiting and people he is talking to, he shouldn't be ignoring his family this way. I would definitely talk with him or write a letter. Something needs to change and before this next baby gets here.

[babyinJuly]

Are you sure it's just FB he's on? That just seems odd to me to spend that much time on there.

[lera1130]

Maybe its just a phase. Excited over his new phone...?

[Capriciousangel31]

It could just be his way of coping with any stress he may be feeling.
I am sorry you had to go through this, I went through the same thing but my hubby was into world of war craft ( a computer game ) no matter how you bring it up to him it will start a fight. You can choose between 2 options the first being you set down with him and explain exactly how you have been feeling ( or write a letter if you are like me and get to worked up to talk nicely ) just make sure you don't point fingers and accuse him because he will shut down and ignore you. The 2nd option is to do the same thing back to him, always have plans don't tell him whats going on and just act indifferent. it usually gets the guys attention and they snap back you just have to be careful that you don't become to cold towards him or you won't want anything to do with him when he does finally come around. Me and my hubby were going to file for divorce last year because things were so bad between us I even moved out, after a few months we decided to give it 6 months of us actually trying to work things out between us. so in September I moved back in with him and then in November we got pregnant. for the most part we have been okay but we still have our fights or he will be talking to his cousin form the moment he wakes up til he goes to bed and I can easily go the whole day without talking to him but usually we sit down and I explain how I feel and things will start to get better. I am 34 weeks pregnant and stressed all the time. Hopefully you and your hubby can work things out maybe you two should go on a trip even if it's just to a local hotel for one night that way you guys can reconnect and enjoy eachother