why do i still feel like this?

[amanda1990775]

hello my name is amanda i had a miscarriage in feb 2009 at 6weeks, i am pregant again i am now 23weeks witch is going great , but i cant stop thinking about if this happeneds if thats happeneds i thinks it because of my miscarriage but i also think why should it be i got pass the point of 6week this time its different im 23weeks do you think i still worrie about is going to happend because of the past if so would any one be able to tell me how to try not to worrie and start enjoying it more thanks amanda

[JoyRenee]

Amanda- women who experience miscarriage feel like this, no matter how far along they are in their pregnancy. You're not alone! I've had 2 miscarriages and I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant. The worry never ends; it's a part of motherhood.

My word of advice is to stop worrying about the things out of your control. Enjoy your pregnancy, enjoy the baby movements that you are feeling or are about to start feeling, enjoy setting up the nursery and buying cute clothes. And keep that chin up! Your chances of something bad happening at this point are pretty slim.

[tarajanes]

Sadly after a mc you never will relax,when you concieve again,ive had 7 loss'es currently 16 weeks pregnant,and still worry.your 23 weeks now,thats a great,yes you worry because of the past,and it wont stop until you have your little one in your arms.there are many of us on here who feel just like you do.there is no cure,well at least I cant find one,just try to relax and enjoy,thats all i can say.