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Everytome my fiance even says the word sex or even talks too much to me I feel like I'm gonna vomite I love him millions but latly I'm repulsed by him like I even go bed earlier so he don't climb in and cuddle me while I'm awake I literally feel like puking every time he does it especially talking bout sex I'm worried as I'm only 9 weeks and dunno y this is happening
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When I firat fell pregnant I didnt understand why my fiancé bugged me in everything and sex.... well I couldnt stand the thought. Actually was the same did everythig to avoid it as possible. It does fade once I was over it finally in the late second trimester I had gone back to myself almost and my sex drive rocketed back but its then persuading them your not too big ect and its safe he freaked out because his son was in there. Haha. Promise its not that bad my first baby took me till after she was born
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Oh im hoping for it to pass alright we ust to be so close before pregnancy so he knows it's not really me choosing to act that way thank god he understands
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7550046 tn?1408669967
Omg I went through the same thing. Even me picking up his phone calls when we weren't together would make me throw up. Literally almost everything about him made me puke. I love him very much as well but it was hard. No matter how much I would remind him that I deeply care about him and that hopefully it'll pass, he would embed in his mind that I wasn't physically attracted to him or didn't care about him anymore. It was hard, but finally once I got to my second trimester it went away and my sex drive was out of this world lmao so all I can say is stay strong and pray that it'll pass soon.
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So in the beginning sex grossed me out. It.felt weird to me.... Than I hit my 3rd trimester and now he doesn't want to have sex because his son is in there lol... I'm like wtf we made him. Don't worry it happens to a lot of couples.
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I am very nice to him he is my world just mentioning that makes me wanna run bathroom and ya i have explained to him he is OK with it hope it passes soon xx thanks ladies
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9835122 tn?1407674497
Im in my third trimester and its been like this for us this whole pregnancy it sux real bad lol but we still try
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10052319 tn?1408978714
Same situation and it was my whole first trimester now im in my second and its going away just talk to him they will understand and without knowing one day ull be the one talking about it ;) lolz goodluck :)
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8436178 tn?1399051988
I was the same way in my first trimester. I hated him just being close to me. It'll pass eventually. He just has to be patient nd understanding. Also it won't hurt to try nd be nicer to him
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8654668 tn?1412565128
:/..try explaining its.not his fault or yours and it will pass..I dunno..im sorry  for both of u thats terrible spunding
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Ya but its really bad feel sorry for him he is so good and now thinks I've no time or patients for him hope this passes soon
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10025015 tn?1422498264
Just your hormones.
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