Any Advice/Comment: Am I the Father of Her Baby?

[Blind_Wink]

Me and My Gf had sex last January 9th and February 23rd. and she told me that her last menstrual is Feb 7th or 8th. And right now she is 11 weeks pregnant based on her Ultrasound and her due date as per her Doctor is either November 13th or 14th. When did she got pregnant? Am I the Father of her Baby??

Please Help!

Thank you!

[Blind_Wink]

I Trust my partner and She trusts me too.

I am confident about it. its just that I don't know how to count. haha

[jensaarai]

all that math might not count for anything. My bf has doubted this whole time that he's the father of my baby bc we only had sex the day before my period was gonna start and they're pretty regular. I know that's the only time i had sex and that i haven't been with anyone else in the past 6 years.

It's hurtful that he keeps referring to her as potentially his daughter so i would recommend either being confident that the baby is yours and putting any doubt aside - or - being up front about wanting to get a paternity test.

[Blind_Wink]

Thank you so much!

Great Great News!!

[Blind_Wink]

I'm not good at this, but I remember February 23rd we had sex and her last day of menstrual is February 7th. So it means 11 weeks is correct based on her Ultrasound yesterday.

And I trust my partner. So thank you so much for the advice.

[BonitaMichelle]

Her pregnancy started feb 7 even if you had sex on feb 23.  So shes 11 weeks pregnant but the fetus is 9 weeks old.

I had to break it all down for my boyfriend so I learned a lot. He had the exact questions you have.

[BonitaMichelle]

If you had sex in February then you can be the father.  More likely so if u had sex feb 23.  Ovulation typically occurs 14 days after beginning of period.  Feb 23 - feb 7 = 16 days.  Ovulation is not an exact science so doctors +/- 5 days.  She could get pregnant between feb 14 - feb 26.

[Blind_Wink]

January 9th Friday, then February 23rd Monday. I forgot if we had sex on February 9th Monday. and she told me that her last day of menstrual is February 7th Friday.

[BonitaMichelle]

Im confused... did you have sex on feb 23? And her period was feb 7?

[Blind_Wink]

Yes pregnancy a bit confusing specially for a man.

So when did she got pregnant if we sex on the  23rd of February and the last time is January 9th.

[BonitaMichelle]

Pregnancy starts the first day of last menstrual cycle. Not the day of conception.  I know its so confusing.

[BonitaMichelle]

Only advice: get a paternity test.  Only way to know for sure.

[Blind_Wink]

So does this mean I am a FATHER now? Wow....

Maybe I count on the wrong cycle. I started counting after a week of February 23rd.. I am thinking it should be 9 or 10 weeks.

[AK_Lady]

Sounds right if you had sex the 23rd of February. That would put her right around 11 weeks and generally ovulation is 14 days after period so right around the 23rd.

Sperm can live and fertilize an egg up to 5 days after intercourse.