Lets Talk About Sex!

[FinessLeslie]

I'm 12weeks and this time around I'm not in the mood at all!!! Yesterday was our 1yr wedding anniversary so it was spicy and he put even more extra umpf into it. But I just don't want time be touched.

My hubs' soooo affectionate and from the day we began dating he's been so darn lovy dovy!  He wants to kiss my shoulders, face, toes, hands, back, everywhere... he even tries to suck my eyeballs!  I should be used to it by now since Feb 2008.

I never stop him or turn him down but with my other pregnancies I was more turned on with just looking at him!

I told him to do more romancing maybe, because I have a lot of things on my mind and I just need it cleared before in turned on. Not sure y this pregnancy I'm not trying to get my beef-cake all the time like my other pregnancies my harny-mones were so turned up.

[ericacrdn1]

:)

[FinessLeslie]

@Natjayne I know right!

[natjayne]

Hahaha. To funny. Fixing your hair and that before you get in the car in mid contraction :-) least we can laugh about these things.x

[FinessLeslie]

@Natjayne Lol I am silly a lot. My friend and her baby zaddy slept over that day and they were Laughing so hard at me. My friend said "we're calling 911 get out the bathroom! " I said, "no! They're gonna know we done it! I have to bathe!" But all while saying that...my contractions were coming through so I was rushing my words out! That was a funny labor. I kept saying "babe, do I look like I got smashed? " he just laughed n told me lie down.

[natjayne]

"I was not about to go into labour smelling and looking like relations" pmsl sorry that made me proper laugh :-)
I'm the same I'm 30wks and my sex drive has driven off somewhere. It hurts, its uncomfortable and I'm just not feeling it. Pre pregnancy no issues and my other two pregnancies no issues. This one hes got no chance. I feel bad and I do the odd time but it makes me feel like I've been kicked down there :-( your not alone on this x

[FinessLeslie]

@brittanybaby14 right! It's not the man at all! My hubs say I'm not attracted to him, but I am. I'm just not in the mood. Maybe when you go to your next appointment,  being your honey bunches of oats with you and bring it up to your doctor...that way he will hear it from a professional.  That's what I'm going to do!

[FinessLeslie]

Hopefully he can understand patience2014. Now one thing is after our son was born, those 6weeks we had to wait owed me everything!!!!

[Brittanybaby14]

Same here, and it's passing him off, he thinks it's him, it's our first baby and he doesn't understand that some pregnant women go thru this I feel bad tho

[FinessLeslie]

In 2012 with my pregnancy with my son, the week before Thanksgiving my hubs n I had sex the whole night and that sent me right in labor! We actually planned that because I realized my due date was Thanksgiving week and I said I refuse to be in hospital on Thanksgiving!!  So we had hot steamy relations all night long. I was 39 weeks.

But when the contractions got worst and I would slid down the wall cuz they were so strong, so in between contractions I ran to the bathroom to clean myself up because I WAS NOT about to go in labor smelling and looking like relations!!!  Oh no baby, not I!

Glad to know I'm not alone on this though.

Only things is my hubs told me last week how sexy I looked sleeping he wanted to steam me but was scared to because I become Moody sometimes and that made me feel bad.

[patience2014]

I'm 25 wks btw

[patience2014]

Omg it's like that for me to and my relationship kinda suffers bc of it but all I can do is just try and get him to understand it's a hormone thing and pray about it...hopefully it gets better for all of us.

[lalabrownw2011]

Girl I am having the same issue. I am 32 weeks and haven't wanted to be touched the whole time.
When I was pregnant with my daughter I wanted it all the time but this time around its just different :(