Mother Issues

[JanPaige14]

I have already have mother in law issues. But omg! On the other hand, my mother is like bipolar or something. Ok, all this started a week ago. I have been going home and staying there by my father's request. My father is really excited and it seems he has to tell my mother to get baby clothes or to help with what I need. My mother... she asks for the money back or some sort of payment back.I don't need their help. I could get it on my own I mean as their daughter I do what I can at their house.  She dislikes my husband.  She calls him a *******, a**hole. I mean for no reason at all. Their two story house is under construction.  When my husband has a few days off from work and he helps work on their house. He does what she asks. Like around the house. Because my father is not around much due to his job. She does not have respect for us. And when it comes to me asking about pregnancy stuff, she makes it about herself and when she was pregnant like a million years ago. Every women's pregnancy is different. I feel sad I can't talk to her. She really puts me down to the point I really don't want to see them. Idk :'(

[JanPaige14]

I actually have.  She threw it in my face. And everytime I end up leaving she texts me saying, "Lets make it right". It has happened a lot. And things aren't easy. I'm 26 weeks and 4 days. I have address this to my father, but  got so tired of it. He doesn't want anything to do with it. She really makes me seem like a bad person. And its sad. That my own father doesn't hear what I have to say.

[AminaM1]

Awww, that's sad especially if your close to your mom.Maybe she's bitter women get like that but in the most respectful way you will have to sit her down and assert yourself tell her how you feel.and how stressful it is for her to treat you two that way and if she can't respect your husband then you'll Have to  keep him away because your not gonna let her verbal abuse him.now keep in mind I said respectful not gonoff on ur mom! But definitely say something then do something!   Even if you have to call a family meeting and cry to get it out.let it be know that your hurting I think im going to take my own advice although my situation is a lil different .good luck hun.

[chanti4]

Im sorry that's really hard. Have you tried talking to her about the issues you have?