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New mummy concerns!

Hey everyone im on baby number one and have only done home tests. It's only been 4/5 days since bfp number one and have checked yesterday and still positive.  go to the doctor tomorrow, but have had many Positive Tests so I'm sure there's a little squid in there! I should be about 4 weeks which is very early! I just want to keep checking every minute of everyday that the baby is in there! I'm so worried that something will go wrong and that the worst will happen, does this stop?! Will it stop?!
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I am 13 weeks and it STILL feels unreal to me most of the time. It hit me when I had my first ultrasound and I am far enough along to where I can see the baby. Still VERY nerve wrecking for me as a first time mom and doing it without the father. Good luck darling!
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I was the same in my first pregnancy and the same this pregnancy too! Somebody said to me when I was pregnant with my first that you never stop worrying from the moment you get a positive test and it's very true! Take your vitamins, rest when you need too, do not Google things and enjoy your pregnancy :) if you get any bad pain (period cramps are normal) or heavy bleeding then call your doctor. Otherwise enjoy hun, pregnancy is a beautiful experience. All the best xx
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I'm on baby #1 to and I'm out of my mind with worry to. So its safe to say that you're not alone. BTW its to late for me I've been googling and YouTubing everything. Although some of it is useful a lot of it scared me
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I did the same thing- googling things- horrible idea. Not doing that anymore!
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I was the same too! Every time i went toilet i was checking the paper for blood because i was terrified of losing it, plus i took medication early on which they advise you not to. Im now 14w3d and as far as i know baby is fine :) i just tried to relax and tell myself what will be will be, do all you can and hopefully it should all be ok xx
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I'm a new dad 15 weeks pregnant we are and I don't think that feeling ever goes away till the day you die xxx
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Thanks for all the answers ladies, I'm trying to settle a bit now! Although the pregnancy wasn't planned I can't imagine already going back to just bring two ever again! It was like life knew what I wanted before I did! Good luck to everyone else and thankyou! Xx
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I was that way with my first n now I'm on my 4th and still get that way but dnt over worry bc that's bad for u n baby
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I was like that with my first too! I swear it's normal and I never relaxed until the first appointment.
Congrats on your baby!
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