Paternity Reasurance

[0306bettyboop]

Hi there,

Im aged 30 and for the first time in my life, Ive done something which I hugely regret and am deeply ashamed of. I'm in such a bad place which is completely my own fault and im in desperate need of reasurance. I had sex with guy A on the 23nd July and he did not ejaculate, my normal period came 4 days later on the 27th. I have a 30 day cycle and ovulate on day 16 (ive done ovulation tests in the past). I then had sex with guy B unprotected 3 times around the time of my ovulation 9th-13th August. My first positive pregnancy test was on the 26th August on the day my next period should have been due (5 weeks after guy a- all prior tests were negative). Ive had two early ultrasounds and they match up perfectly with guy b dates but my anxiety levels are crazy and my mind is in overdrive. I can't bare the thought of telling my current partner, guy b, that there was a risk 3 weeks before him as we really want to make a go of it and he's delighted im pregnant. I feel so stupid and very upset about this. Any advice would be great, Thanks :)

[sweetbee3]

You concieve 2 weeks after your lmp. Your egg only survive for 24 hours, while a males sperm can survive  up to 7 days.  So after guy A,  you had a period... so you conceived 2 week after, meaning guy B would be the father.  Good luck: -)

[0306bettyboop]

Thank you for your support, I appreciate it x

[lucie27]

If you had a period after guy a there is no chance it can be his.

[maw4389]

Probably guy b...