encouragement ladies

[tweetybird4]

My bd we started out as friends w/ benefits. Then we started a relationship this past September.  I got pregnant soon after that. We moved in together in November and I left in December cause I found a note saying he wanted to work things out with some girl and check on me. Bot to mention he recked my car didn't help fix it. But begging me not to leave. Then he was complaining bout he wasn't happy. Ok. I left but still doing for him. Now I'm 29w2d we suppose to move back in together but now he acring funny with everything move or decision I make he left his job soon after I left him in December.  Didn't have the nerve to tell me. Its a lot of stress cause idk wat to do. My mom offer to help us. He has a problem wih everything. I been paying for everything dealing with my baby girl. Its crazy how he's acting

[michelle3612]

Hell nah thats stressing me out reading about him lol.. why put urself threw all that..he needs u more then you need him. . His loss:)

[Trewlv]

I was going through the same thing except the friends with benefits part... he even took my car..I took it away n decided to leave him in hope that he will realize we are having a baby n needs to man up n change his ways... glad to say it worked for me...now he realized he needs to work to have a foundation for our family in order to take care of us and is determined to change his ways...I did what was best for me n my kids and if it took to leave him to make him realize something was wrong. Well it did work..now I take it day by day n we are starting to talk again.. Do what's best for you and ask God for guidance he will guide the way...

[choeyoojin]

I think there are a lot of us out there in similar situations. My bf and I have been together since July of last year and I am due June 22. He had contact with his ex when we first started dating but ended up sleeping with her even after he found out I was pregnant. He said drunken mistake. I gave him another chance but it's been rough. We don't live together but maybe soon. We have our good days and our bad but he keeps making good choices for us and supporting by going to all the Dr appointments. I see hope that one day we will completely move past his mistake. God bless.

[junebaby25]

My bf and I started out as friends with benefits, I found out I was pregnant in October, I'm 30wks now...he just moved in last month, and finally got a job 3wks ago after being unemployed for almost 2yrs and his mom supporting him 100% during his time off. He still keeps in touch with his ex gf from high school that he was with for like 8 years, he's 31 now so they have been broken up for a long time but they lost their virginity to each other and I feel weird that they still talk....I feel your stress, I think sometimes that there was a reason we were only friends with benefits and now that we're in a relationship because if the baby I decided guess myself being with him sometimes. Good luck, I hope everything gets better for you

[brit333]

I agree. Sounds like he is having a issue with maning up to his responsibilities and for you and baby's sake until he can get his head on straight you need to do what's best for you and baby. If your mom is willing to help out take the help from her but he needs to man up.

[tweetybird4]

Thnx

[jayceonkemauriyonmom]

Kind of going through the same thing but you have to think what's best for baby girl don't stress your self