help!! im having orgasms my sleep!!!!

[MummyOf2ndChild]

so lately ive been not wanting sexual intervourse with my husband im 35wks pregnant. nd cringe at the idea of having sex. but weirdly whilst im sleeping i dream about god knows what nd i orgasm it feels really good but super weird at the same time!!! hw do i stop it?! i dntcwant to risk going into early labour bcuz ov it?!

[MummyOf2ndChild]

yess hun im 35wks 2days and expecting a lol boy.x  i dint hav wet dreams with my first pregnancy.

[MummyOf2ndChild]

hi there sweety. ummmm tbh i dont hav any sex drive warsoever from before getting pregnant till nw! i dnt understand myself whrre this hornynrss has *** from lol srry to b blunt! i also asked hubby if ov been acting strange in the night he replied yes! then as stupid as i am ive told him that i hav orgasms hos reply was ryt u cbb pleasuringe but u dnt mind pleasuring urself?!!! lol putting me in an awkward position to say the least....ugghh he will gt over it soon .  

as for spicing up ur sex life. i had a go at this nd it seemed to work i went nd got myself a bundle ov sex toys nd materisls to xperimnt with it duz hav a certain effect on ur luv life it dus spic it up abit even roleplay...its fun nd gts tge job done too lol...
my first boy i had after 8years ov trying he was an ivf bby!!! now this time around i was xpecting to hav another ivf round buh lukily gt pregnant all naturallywhich was a relief cux here in the UK it costs 4000 pounds for one round ov ivf!!...soo glad all tgem sex toys paid off

[24_7mamaof3]

I am completely amazed to here for the first time, that women can even have so called "wet dreams...? Wow! Im dying to know what I could do differently or any advice for me at all to get "in the mood" nothing works. I'm a women, like most of us.. Whom has suffered for many many years now(I still haven't even reached 30 yet but I can't even remember the last time I was able to show my long term boyfriend whom I have absolutely adored and felt the same strong feelings for. I know I love him, I still get butterflies from him all the time but I'm someone that suffers badly from very little or no libito or any kind of sexual desire whatsoever!! I mean I can't remember the last time I was ever turned on. It's been years since I've even gotten excited about sex. I mean, I've been with my boyfriend, baby's father and love of my life for almost 9 years now but I find him to be the absolute best looking, sexiest, mature, just perfect in every way for me. Of course he thinks it's him, he says it's because of our age difference or that he needs to start working out again to get me to jump all over him. How do I tell him or show him prof that it actually IS ME AND MY OWN SELF WITH THE ISSUE. I keep trying to explain to him that no matter what he dose, he can only gain his own self confidence because in my eyes my feelings and how I see him that he has never changed. It seems that it started more to decrease after having my first baby at age 22 then since then, greatly decreases more after each baby I have. I got pregnant and then gave birth to my most recent, almost 3 month old baby boy. There has not been one single time I know for sure since my most recent pregnancy but even for years prior. In fact I can't even remember any single time since my late teen years! I always thought that a womens peak of there drive is somewhere within the 20's into early 30's...? Is there something wrong with me or something else I should know about how to get any excitement or my Lobito back or started. This is why I just had to ask this women and group of women talking about having these kind of dreams... Right? I've never before herd of that even being possible. So I guess they say, we dream of what we think about the most so there is something I should be doing different to at least try to put those thoughts in my head. I don't know what it is.... I was hoping to find the right women to ask. The only other time I had brought it up was to my doctor over a decade ago and the only possible reasoning behind it, he said it had to only be a side effect from my anxiety and depression meds I was taking so his solution was for me to take a half of the blue male form of Viagra he prescribed for me but then found out that my insurance doesn't cover that so I had no choose but to discontinue after only trying it. Over the past several years, around 3 of these years I wasn't taking ANY prescription at all so I know it can't only be because of my past meds since I have always felt this way more and more over my 20's and now since I'm almost 30 but still nothing. Anything would help. Experiences of any kind or information would be great!! What could I do or where should I go for help with this? Am I alone in this situation?? Thank you to whomever takes the time to read this and reply!!

[K3lly27]

Was happening to me around 25 weeks. I also didnt have a sexual desire with my husband as well. When it would happen i would ask my husband if i was acting strange in my sleep which he confirmed i was but i could never get the urge to tell him what i was dreaming about and what was happening. For a minite there i had to convince myself i was not cheating it was just a dream lol. Im 32 weeks pregnant with a BOY. Are you having a boy? I was thinking maybe that have something to do with it. But i did go to the sex store and got me a few toys to release my orgasms and since then i have not been having the dreams anymore. With this pregnancy i dont want to have sex with my husband i dont understand why. Prob cause its not comfortable and its exhausting due to the weight gain and the big belly. Idk

[sgulia1987]

There's no need to worry. The increased blood flow down there is likely the cause I have that every now and again pregnant or not. An organism isn't going to put you into labor unless your baby and body are already ready or a lot more women would be having pre term labor.

[erinmommyof2]

That happened to me all the time with my first. Has happened a few times with this pregnancy too. Enjoy it!!