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Am i the only one who is just not interested in having sex? I feel so bad for hubby but i just can't get into it especially now that I'm 38 weeks.. i can't even remember the last time we had sex and then after birth we will have to wait six more weeks.. i just can't get into it :-/
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Lmao shanz i need to give birth Already for the sake of our sex life lol luckily my husband is very understanding but i know he's frustrated i don't blame him :/
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Lol ugh i wish i could experience an organ Amanda but hey just 7 more weeks which is completely fine with me i just don't know how he will take it.  Im going to try my hardest to do it at least one more time at least for his sake even if i have to fake it :/
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My body is just confused. I want sex and I am horn then it when it actually comes to have sex it's like ok well maybe if I can just lay there and please don't look at me cause I'm gross    makes no sense to me lol we try once every couple weeks and see what happens. My man is just afraid to hurt me since everything is so swollen and weird lol. I know he needs the release as much as I do. Tried oral once a while back and that ended in me running to the bathroom and throwing up. Needless to say that's not happening again lol
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I have to force myself to have sex with my boyfriend because if I had it my way I wouldn't be having sex at all lol. I find my boyfriend very attractive, I always have it's just since I got pregnant my sex drive has went out the window (I'm 26wks now). I make sure to please him one every couple of days because I know he gets stressed out just as much as I do having to deal with my crazy hormones haha. He's been so understanding & patient with all of this I couldn't ask for a better man to be by my side :)
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Im 37 weeks and  4 days and and havent had sex for awhile im just not in the mood plus because of my big belly its just so awkward.. pregnant people problems
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I never wanted sex to begin with. My fiance doesn't understand that. I know it can't hurt the baby,but it hurts me now and it never used to.
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40+2, Can't rememberThe Last Time We Had Sex. I Want It Too! Like Nicole (My First Name Is Also Nicole) My Body Wants Nothing To Do With It. Doc Ordered As Much Unprotected Sex This Weekend To Induce Labor And I Don't Think I've Dreaded Sex Ever. I Told Dad That Yeah He Feels Sick But He Had To Have Sex With Me! He Wants It Too, But Has Yucky Insides (Both Of Us) Because We Pigged Out To Much On Pizza Hut. He Also Knows It's Going To Hurt Me. Doctors Orders Lets Get This Baby Out. This Is Going To Be The Worst Sex Ever.
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Lmaooo! :) @yadib04 that made me laugh so hard. If the hubby is understanding it shouldn't matter. Get that mouth ready girl! But I seriously felt the most intense orgasms I've ever felt while pregnant. That's why I'm more like umm okay because he always makes sure I orgasm. If not I'd be all pissed off after. Lol
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I feel the sameway only mentally I want sex but my body says something totally different I cant seem to find the energy especially since im 37weeks I just be tired but my husband is being really really patience wit me
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Lol well I'm gonna have to get my arms and mouth ready cause there is no way I'm having sex lol
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I'm hardly in the mood but before being pregnant we would do it all the time. My bf is understanding but I've never wanted to be the couple where our sex lives diminish because of children. I always try to make it a point to be affectionate. I understand men like to feel wanted as well. So I like to still initiate sex with my bf. We do it once everyday. Whether it just be oral sex or sex. Half the time I start off not in the mood but end up with a huge grin on my face at the end. :)
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Miskay at least u give it to him i just can't do it.. and tmi but i also have hemorrhoids which makes me feel less desirable ugh i can't wait till I can finally feel better but myself.. at least he's always complimenting me and makes me feel good about myself
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Your not the only one,im 34weeks and sex is just a no no for me,since i found out im preg..i feel bad but sometimes i jst also force myself to giving him the cookie,jst try atleast even if its once a week..
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