I waited the usual 6wks if normal vb then its up to the individual. I think after a section should wait more I did after my 2nd. But the bond was special more love after seeing our new arrival.
Also a reliable contraceptive is the key don't want to be preg again so soon after lol
I think that its personally up to you, if you feel ready to go, then go :) only you will know how your body feels and if your still tender or anything like that, waiting the full 6 wks now is pretty old fashioned, especially if you have had a normal vaginal delivery with no complications :)
We waited 4 weeks, I just didn't feel like it personally and he didn't care.
With my first and second we waited 6 weeks because of tearing and wanted to make sure everything was healed ok.
We waited 3 weeks and not to scare you but it hurt for me so than we ended up waiting til week 6 and it felt so much better! Just do it when you feel ready.
Not comfortable with it! Wow that's the first I've ever heard that!!
I'm pretty sure with my first I waited 7weeks.. I remember I was kinda scared to do it..
hey,
i had a vaginal delivery and we had sex within two weeks of delivery. when we went for our checkup with the doctor we told him and he said if i felt fine and it didn't hurt that that was fine. i wasn't bleeding either so felt normal. sometimes you start something and its hard to stop the ball from rolling. ; )
just play it safe, use lubricant and stop if it hurts you.
you can always find other ways to entertain him. : )
Haha that's been ruled out long ago just something I'm not comfortable with. I guess I would like my normal sex life back too!
I know how he feels. I wanted a way to 'thank' my hubby for such an amazing gift. I was more in love w him then ever! We waited the 6 weeks Dr suggested but you don't have to rule out oral sex for him.