Thanks ladies, I am not giving up!
I had a miscarriage almost a year ago at about8 weeks. The baby wasn't developing properly. The doctor said something about the body being able to terminate pregnancy on its own when things aren't going rite. I am currently 19weeks with a very healthy baby soo I don't think there is much for you to worry about if you were to get pregnant again.
I know someone personally whose baby had trisonomy 13. The doctors said the probability of that happening in another pregnancy is slime. They have had two very healthy babies since. I hope that puts your mind at ease a little
It can be a fluke when it happens...it's not always genetic.