My guy friend and I are both 16 and exactly a month ago from today we had sex for the first time with eachother. we used a condom but i dont think hes as experienced as he acts so i think maybe he didn't leave any or enough room at the tip of the condom for his stuff. or maybe the condom was expired, or it just ripped. i dont know if maybe it was to small because i suppose hes bigger than average. anyways. he seemed nervous when he was taking off the condom and later on i noticed i still felt...wet...and not in a typical way. more like i had his stuff in me even though we used a condom. the next day we were talking and i was just saying how my mom gives me freedom shes happy if im not pregnant or on drugs. and he just said "well, you could be pregnant.." and i ignored it until the next day and he said he was kidding. i am on birth control and my period is due between this monday or wednesday coming up. for a couple weeks i've been extremely exhausted constantly. i am getting headaches every day, am more moody, my back hurts and my boobs hurt...it started off a little sore but its getting worse and it doesn't happen often. usually only a little and only from wearing a bra. my stomach is feeling weird today im getting a tiny pain. i'm a lot more thirsty and i'm peeing atleast every hour. ive noticed since 12/20/11("the day") that once or twice when i went pee i noticed a little spot of blood on the toilet paper. i'm having a little discharge but i dont know if its from my period suppost to be coming. i feel a lot more hot lately. i got my period a few days after we did it. im really bloated now...like very. and i think my boobs are swelling a little and the veins in them are showing more. i dont know what to do. another friend said hed help me get a pregnancy test but i dont even know if i can yet and get an accurate result...can i? i have no idea how to tell him. i only told 2 or 3 friends about this and they say i need to tell him even before i know for sure but i dont want to put him through what im going through if i dont have to. please help me