So me and my partner are both 20 and we've been dating for a while now. We started having sex about a week ago and have had sex about 8 times (I know, I know). Now I don't want anyone to judge but I am not on birth control and we haven't really used a condom at all (except for once, but it hurt too much and we didn't have lube so he took it off). So basically we have both been tested for STD's and that's perfectly fine but I'm concerned about pregnancy, obviously.
I've been on the Pill and the implanon and both made me feel ill, I put on about 10kg and had extremely heavy periods. My last mentrual cycle was the 31st October-6th November and my cycle is around 32 days.
He has been pulling- out (better than nothing) and he was good about it until our second time on the 15th (we had sex three times that day) when things were getting really heated and he thought he was about to come so he pulled out but nothing was there so we kept going (Yeah, not the smartest idea) and the second time he pulled out he came but he didn't have enough time to get off me so he came around the bottom of my butt but close-ish to my vagina (yikes! ). I am going to the doctor Tuesday for the Pill so we can be more careful but I'm terrified if I will be already pregnant. I had a period tracker app and it says I am fertile between the 13-19th but ovulating on the 18th this month.
Just want to know how much of a possibility pregnancy is, I don't really trust the pregnancy app btw.
Also my boyfriend and I have talked about it and we have decided that until I've been on the Pill for a month we will use condoms when we want to go for ages and when he wants to come inside otherwise if we're safe he doesn't want to use one and I hate condoms too they make so many disgusting noises. I will also tell him that he needs to completely get off me when he comes and not just pull out and lay on top of me.
So do you think pregnancy is a possibility if he only came once outside the vagina? The other times he didn't come close apparently and I trust him.
If you do think it's a possibility, how early can I test? Should I wait until my period is late? Just quickly, I've also been crazy tired the past 4 days since ovulation, I've never been this tired for this long and somehow I just kind of feel somethings off. I know it's almost impossible to feel symptoms this early it's just something I thought I should just check.
The chances of you being pregnant are pretty high since your not on birth control and your not using protection. Also, as I'm sure you're aware, the pull out method doesn't work. So I would wait and see if you miss your period and if you do, take a test. Good luck.
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