Dry humping, am i pregnant?

[suzy998]

So... most of you will just think this question is stupid, but i'm really really worried, so please reply quickly... :(.. Me and my boyfriend were at his house and we were dry humping... i had 2 panties on (just in case) and shorts (jean ones) , and he had boxers and shorts (those that reach the knees) and while we were dry humping he came. After he came, a while later he went to the bathroom, and cleaned it, oh and btw when he came there was like a damp 1 inch spot of sperm on his shorts... my period is late almost a week and im super worried, if im pregnant or not. I'm young and i know i shouldn't be doing these things but i've learned from it and i will never do it again, help me please.
And btw my first layer of pantie had a spot of my fluids. Please reply quickly :(

[OctoberMommy2014]

your question isn't stupid, but no you're not pregnant.
especially considering you just started your period a year ago.. I'm sure they're not on a regular cycle yet.

p.s. yes, please just go ahead & get on birth control. if/when the time comes & you decide you want to go further.. that peace of mind will save you a lot of stress! don't stress, your period will come.

good luck!! (((:

[EllaMari]

There is NO WAY you are pregnant, sounds like PMS. It sometimes takes a while for periods to become regular. You could miss your period if you stress too much.

[suzy998]

Yeah it must be it... but he's super comprehensive, and he never forced me to do it, he said that he would go farther if i wanted to, but i am not interested in being all this worried again... my period hasn't come yet... it started last year, and its usually regular, i dont really note the date.. but yesterday i had some pain in my lower back, and some mild belly cramps, is that normal??? I also have kinda of a white/ish light yellow discharge.. is that a sign of period? And should i have nothing to worry about when it comes to me being pregnant? Please reply quickly :(

[EllaMari]

Not at all possible to get pregnant this way. I agree with the above poster, talking to your doctor about your sex life and getting on birth control is a good idea!

[shortanddumpy1]

It is very unlikely that you would have any chance of pregnancy from this. Periods can often be.affected by stress hormones and worry. Also as you state you are young, sometimes depending how long ago you started having monthlies it can take a few years to settle into a regular pattern. Try not to worry too much but as you said learn from it. You should be enjoying your relationship without the need to go further than you want. It might be an ideal time to sort some.birth control out to, not in order to have sex, but just so if something like this happened again you would be less anxious. I would not tell the boy you were on it though as it might make him think you want to go further. Just look after yourself and never think you have to do anything. But no, you are not pregnant I would be fairly certain x