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Possible pregnancy after fingering with ***?

Yes, im 15 next week, and last weekend i was fingered by my ex boyfriend (we still have feelings for eachother but live to far apart, so we hooked up while he was in town) Basically he cummed on me and played with it a bit, and then fingered me (in the space of 1-2 minutes, meaning the *** was still wet and hadnt dried) Im not sure how much he had on his hands, but it wasnt much. He told me after i left to get a pregnancy test just in case. Im have been somewhat worried but everyone its telling me there is no chance of me being pregnant. I was at that time (ovalation?) that i am most likely to get pregnant, and my period is meant to come in 7-9 days. I havent missed a period since i started and i am usually quiet regular. Im just wondering what the chances of me being pregnant are? I have been extremely tired, and have some symtoms (symptoms) which i sometimes get before my period, but im worried that i may be pregnant even though there is little chance. What are the possibilities?
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VERY unlikely for fingering to cause pregnancy. His penis would need to have been inserted in your vagina for the chances to be higher of pregnancy, otherwise the chances of becoming pregnancy from being ejaculated on or fingered are slim to none.
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Okayy thankyouu <3 i have been worried, but im sure im also fine, just its still there at the back of my mind. he was going quiet deep and his fingers did contain some semen, thats what got me worried.
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Its possible but sprem can only live so long in outside atmosphere it has to have perfect conditions to live outside of our bodies so....Its possible but unlikely
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Avatar_m_tn
it wasnt out for that long, and isnt that if it enter the vagina that there is a chance? im trying to think, but i know that he had it on his hands and then he fingered me almost imdiatly after, so i definatly was not dry.
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Sperm needs to be in perfect conditions to stay alive. The perfect conditions are going froma  warm moist penis straight into a warm, moist vagina. Fingers or hands ect are NOT the perfect condition and so it's highly unlikely that the sperm would survive to cause pregnancy.

Honestly, stop worrying about it. It's practically impossible for pregnancy to occur from this. Maybe it would be an idea to not have any more sexual contact etc until you've both educated yourselves on sex and all it entails.
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This is for any further concerns...I personally have been through this. I am 18 and my boyfriend fingered me a number of times and i was so afraid that I'd gotten pregnant. I worried myself sick and due to my worrying I skipped an entire month (I went over about 50 days without a period)! The stress i constantly put myself under made my body skip a period. So I finally broke down and told my boyfriend and my parents. My boyfriend, being logical told me there was no way i was pregnant and so did my parents. I took 3 home pregnancy tests which all came out negative. Even then i was STILL worried! So i finally went to the doctor. After telling her there was no actual intercourse, she laughed a little and told me not to worry at all. After that i finally relaxed and within the next week or two I got my period. My best advice is NOT to worry! Scaring yourself will just make things worse! You CANNOT get pregnant without having intercourse. Sperm does not live long enough to last on hands, sheets, clothes, ect; to get you pregnant. :)
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Yeah, my period came a week earlier than it should have in the end, and it was heavy lasting for only 3-4 days, when usually it last around 6-7. Ive done my research and it is possible to get pregnant from it, as sperm according to most sources usually lasts 20 minutes outside the body - depending on conditions. But at the time i defiantly knew that it was still wet, and he did finger me with it. Im not worried, but ive still heard strange stories of girls getting pregnant and still having their period regularly etc. Chances are close to none though. I took a test too, just so he could make sure that i wasnt! he was more worried than me in the end.
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So I just did the same thing like yesterday, and I didn't have sexual intercourse but I am seriously not even sure if her cummed an fingered me right afterwards which I think he didnt! But I am freaking out an I know I rlly did nothing wrong but I need to calm down and I can't I tried everything. Can you please help!
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@kayla1414 read what roxyrider wrote. @belct123 it is normal for a women's cycle to change with out warning or even skip a month for no reason. Getting pregnant by fingering honestly is near impossible to do. And stay off of Google, Google will just confuse you and give you false information. 1. you would of had to have been ovulating 2. his hands would of had to been dripping with semen. It can take a normal healthy couple up to a year to conceive by actually having sex and charting there ovulation days. I have never heard of anyone getting pregnant by being fingered. And sperm does die once it hits air.
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Avatar_f_tn
If he had *** on his hands and put his finger in your vagina with the ***, then yes it is possible for pregnancy to occur, but if there was no *** on his hands then there is no possibility to get pregnant.
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Avatar_f_tn
I've sort of the same situation. It was literally the day after my period ended. His hands were sorta dry. My period is due in 2 days and I still have no pms symptoms :'( I am really scared. I'm not pms'in and I usually have really bad pms symptoms which hurt and this time I feel normal!
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I've sort of the same situation. It was literally the day after my period ended. His hands were sorta dry. My period is due in 2 days and I still have no pms symptoms :'( I am really scared. I'm not pms'in and I usually have really bad pms symptoms which hurt and this time I feel normal!
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I'm scared ! I don't know if I got pregnant or not! I've missed my period for a month now, but it just started this January.  Is it possible I'm pregnant?! He only fingered me but he did not wash his hands before!!!
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recently on 17th jan i spent time with my boy friend and he fingered me for more than 10min and in between 1c he had touched his...... my periods were supposed to be on 19th jan but till date i dint get...  'm so scared i'd gotten pregnant.. please tell me is their any chances of getting pregnant?
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I know this question is a little old.. But I'm going through a similar situation and I'm freaking out so much.. Did your bf have any sort of sperm on his hands when he fingered you? How did you stay calm until your next period ( I have to wait another 2 weeks for mine)?
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7721203_tn?1433997329
okay..
#1: I've never heard of anyone getting pregnant by getting fingered..
#2: read some of the previous responses to the questions just like yours.
#3: "fingering" may not get you pregnant with semen on his hands, but that semen on his hands CAN still give you an STD!
#4: just stop. use birth control, use condoms, and if you're super worried, all you can do is wait until you have a missed period & take a test. they're $1 at the dollar store..

good luck!!
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Hi my boyfriend fingered me quite deep when we were out one day. he told me that he masturbated and has ejected the semen on his bed sheet. one hour before he fingered me, he masturbated again but washed his penis and hands with water. so may i know what are the chances that i will be pregnant since he fingered me?
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Hi my boyfriend fingered me quite deep when we were out one day. he told me that he masturbated and has ejected the semen on his bed sheet. one hour before he fingered me, he masturbated again but washed his penis and hands with water. so may i know what are the chances that i will be pregnant since he fingered me?
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please please pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee help mee!!!!!i am soo worring about my periods because my bf fingered me one time last month ie april10 after  7 dys my periods came..and   after that i have done my self fingering 4tyms on dis month because of this only my periods getting late any  severe problems will come for me??? plzz help me and  month may20th is my period date now june 4th till my periods not  at came i soo getting feared and june 10 onwards my semister will start pleaseeee help meee pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee  
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Help me my boyfriend fingered me too and its almost 2 weeks I'm supposed to get my period today or tomorrow and I peed thinking it was my period and it was light blood and brown then I peed again there nothing I'm super scared help me
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4851940_tn?1385441629
Fingering yourself will NOT make you pregnant.  Your boyfriend fingering you will NOT make you pregnant.  Make sure he always has clean hands first.

It is very normal for a period to come late by a day or so.  If your periods do come very late and are erratic - meaning that you may miss a week or so - then this could be due to a hormonal imbalance, sometimes if there is a problem with the womb like having polycystic ovaries, sometimes it can be because you are some medications or you may be anaemic and unwell and if you do not eat properly.

As long as you have not had unprotected sex, there is no worry about you getting pregnant.  If your periods are all over the place, you may need to think about seeing your doctor to check your blood for hormone imbalance and whether you have anaemia.  Anaemia is caused by lack of iron in the blood.  

Make sure that you eat a good, healthy and well balanced diet and drink fluids so as not to get dehydrated.

Light blood and a brown show is a sign that your period has either started or is about to start.

If your period is not due, and you have symptoms of light bleeding when you pee, this is very likely to be an infection in the bladder - Drinking plenty of fluids and especially water will help to clear the infection.  The doctor would prescribe an antibiotic to help clear the infection.

Make sure always that when a bloke fingers you, he has washed his hands.  It is very easy to pass bacteria to enter into the bladder from being fingered or having sex.  An infection in the bladder is called Cystitis.  Sometimes you may not see any blood, but may experience frequent visits to the toilet for a pee and may feel a discomfort in the lower belly.
Make sure to drink plenty of water and see the doctor when you have these symptoms.
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Hi....can yu plzzz tel me does white discharge after  immediate figering leads to pregnancy???plzzz plzzz let me knw this as soon as posible.....m soo worried!
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I had sex recently and I cumed on my girlfriends belly and then about 1 minute later I had some *** still On my finger and I fingered her and now I am very worried if she is pregnant or not but I am to scared to tell anyone or go to the doctors help help help
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You will not be pregnant if his penis was not in your vagina when he ejaculated and sperm can't live very long outside of the body however there is still a slight chance she could be pregnant I done the same and I'm very worried and I don't know what to do the best advice is don't worry and use protection next time
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