Sixteen

[wildestdreams]

I've been having sex for about a year now, and the guy I had sex with always pulled out. well last time we had sex, he pulled out (but I think it was a little too late) and I've been having these like cramps, but I missed a whole month for my period, and this month I had some blood loss, but it was only for like a few hours and it wasn't too heavy ? So I don't know if that means I'm pregnant and my body is still trying to have a period ? Or what? Please help. Because I'm worried, and I don't wanna ask my mom because I'm only 16...

[hyster_25]

Pulling out is NOT an effective birth control! Preejaculation happens whether either of you realize it. My brother was 14 when he and his girlfriend sat my mother down to tell her his 13 year old girlfriend was pregnant. When she asked if he used protection his response was that he always pulls out! If you are going to be sexually active get birth control. Also please still use a condom even if you are on birth control. STDs are a real thing! You don't know what the person you are sleeping with might have!

[jemma116]

If you have missed a period and this month have had a small blood loss, then it is highly likely because of the unprotected sex that you had, that you are pregnant.

The only way to be certain is to get a pregnancy test done.

To avoid a pregnancy you should always make sure the bloke uses a condom.  If there is no condom then no sex.  

You are going to have to tell your mom.