Thoughts before I test!!!

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Hello ladies, 

I'm looking for your thoughts before I test. I had my period early in December which lasted it's 5 days, & had unprotected sex throughout the rest of the month as my finacee & I are trying to concive our first child! From calculators online I'd be 4 weeks today. I've had light spotting back near the end of dec which was only when I wiped after urniating and only last a day or so, sore breats, cloudy white discharge, nausea, eating more, very tired, frequent headaches, very light cramping, and mood swings. Fingers crossed I'm expecting, but I'd like to hear all your thoughts before I test tomorrow morning! Thank you! 

Ps. I know women TTC are more intuned with their bodies and sometimes your body will often trick you. But this just seems so real!

mz_anna · Answer

Sound like you and I are around the same timing. The beginning of my LMP was back in 12/3/11, but now I am worried about either not being pregnant or having a miscarriage because just as of the night of 1/4/12 I started to bleed thinking this was implantation bleeding, and 'till today it's still going, it's not a heavy flow. I am irregular and normally I start of my periods with a very heavy flow that lasts about 5-7 days. What I am going through right now is a very light pinkish/redish bleeding. I'm still not sure what's happening and I'm thinking of testing next week. I have fingers crossed for you and I. :)

mama88 · Answer

I'm a little hesitant to test. I'm just afraid of getting another negative and then still not having a period and wondering what's going on. As disgusting as it sounds, I found out I did NOT actually start my period today but developed a hemorrhoid. It's not fun and I've never had one before but that's where the bleeding part came from. So it had nothing to do with my possible pregnancy. I was a little relieved. I just am so impatient, I would like to know already. If I hadn't gotten 2 positive tests and only negatives, I would just accept the negative part. But the two tests that said positive give me hope that I may be. And still no period. So I decided I will test by Sunday morning (if I can make myself wait that long!) if I still have not had my period. What about you? Will you be testing again soon?  I'm not sure if I'm doing it too early to get an accurate result.

Thoughtsandadvice · Answer

Yeah I know how you feel, I was debating it too. And I don't want to hear the dissapointing news. I also have a few left so I'll wait it out as well! Thank you I sure will, same to you!

MommyOfA2YearOld · Answer

I am the kind of person where i feel so dumb for going in there if i am not pregnany you know? Ugh i guess i will wait it out a little while. I have 2 more digital tests left but im scared to even take one now after the disapointment from seeing the BFN. Best of luck to you as well and keep us updated!

Thoughtsandadvice · Answer

Update! I have tested and still getting a very faint negative. It's weird!  My mp is due tomorrow, but usually the night before it comes I get the symptoms for it & I have not. I still have a gut feeling I'm pregnant & for mommyofa2yearold, I would be 4 weeks too, a friend of mine didn't get a positive hpt until she was 12 weeks!! I think our best bets would be calling the doctor and getting the beta blood test done! Best of wishes to all of you! & thank you for all your feedback!

MommyOfA2YearOld · Answer

Wow we have the same story minus the bleeding. Your bleeding could br implantation bleedng which I did have with my 2 year old. I testes again last night and it was more faint then the first one but I think bc I would only be 4 weeks so the hormone levels aren't too high yet. I took a clearblue ways this morning and it was negative which totally threw me off so I opened it and looked at the teat strip inside and again 2 lines one was hat faint so not strong enough for the digital part to pick up. Will you be testing?

mama88 · Answer

I have the same exact cycle as you. My LMP was december 5 and is due today. However, I had a little bit of spotting and that was it, it's done. I have a "feeling" I'm pregnant and have had 2 positive tests, but now they are negative. I didn't bleed at all during the pregnancy with my 2 year old...so now I'm afraid! I feel the same way you do..I feel like I have all the symptoms, but I'm not sure. I hope everything works out great for you!!!

MommyOfA2YearOld · Answer

Just wanted ti update you... I tested this morning and had a faint second tine. I will take another ne later this morning. Best wishes!

MommyOfA2YearOld · Answer

Im going through the kind of thr same thing! My husband and i have been ttc for 6 months. I started on the 5th of dec and am supposed to start Thursday, jan 5th. My cycles are 30-31 days. I have been sick the past three days bit today im very slightly  nauseous on and off, headaches, and my body is extremely weak. I have also noticed a milky white discharge when I go to the bathroom. I don't know if this is all because im was sick or because im pregnant. And advice?

Subs0908 · Answer

Good luck.....sounds like you are. I have tested 5 times up till now since my first test on 9th dec 2011, been alittle worried because I was spotting for over 2 weeks. I had my first ultrasound today and was told I'm 5 weeks but need to go back after 10 days for another scan. Fingers crossed for both of us ;)