I'm 15 and I want to know so much about pregnacy my boyfriend wants to have a baby with me and I do too, I know I'm young but I feel like I'm ready I've been trying to get pregnant. But I'm confused about the whole twenty eight day scycle and all. I tracked my most fetile days and ovulation day the last time I got my period was on june 18, 2013 and from then I've been having sexual intercources. My most fertile days was on the 26th-1st and my ovulation daay was on july 2, 2013. I took a test like on the 6th and I know it was to early to go and take one but I've also had pains in my lower stomach on left for like three days straight then it stoped for one day and appeared on my right lower side. But after it had went away and the next period I'm suppose to have is july 16, 2013 and today is the 15. I feel like my period is coming but I'm not so sure because my previous period was on june 18, 13 and I was suppose to get it on the 13 but I was five days late... if I don't get my period tomorrow ill just have to wait five days later and ill see if I get my period. I want to have a baby but idk if it it might happen I'm not on any type of birth control or anythin and this is my first time trying to get pregnant and all those times I had sex my boyfriend always ejaculated inside me! But can anyone help me and explain to me about cycles and tell me what I can do I need a lot of help and advise ! Thanks (:
I get a lot of help and he has a job and gets 900$$$ check every first of the month he's seventeen and I could start applying for jobs and wait intill I'm sixteen and I think I could handle it and I do understand its just I'm unsure about my cycle cause I never tracked it and I also get a check cause I don't live with my mom I live with my grandmother so I also get a check
Not to be rude by what would make you think you are capable of having a child at 15. No way I'm 26 and still learning new things w my five year old. Graduate high school. Then rethink having a baby I guess. I hope you get ur period
Just from family history my sister had her son at the age of 15 and honest i wish you could of seen how hard it was for her even with the help of both sides of the family it was very hard for her and her boyfriend and for me to see her like that i learnt from it and finish school and now have a good job a home and back up money incase iam pregnant so my advise to you is not to worry about having a baby just yet you have alot to look forward to but in saying that i cant stop you.
Please keep in mind if you want a baby for attention its not the way to go maybe you and your boyfriend could ask family members if you could babysit ther child or find a teen parent group and both of you go to one of there group meetings just to get a clue on teens your age are handlin it...
I dont want to be negative towards what you want but from a woman to woman i know and understand how you feel but just second think about it. I wish the best for you and hope not many people judge you just because your young and feel the way you do, evey woman needs support and help along the way of grown up and im so sure about 87% of woman on here have been in your state of mind and maybe you might come across post from other woman who can help you..
Sorry im going on n on i hope da best 4 u n wat life holds 4 u
What do you mean you have so many feelings and that's why you want to gateway baby? Babies are really hard work, and very expensive. Clothes, formula, nappies, healthy food for yourself etc etc all mounts up. They are tiring and they are stressful and you can't just go out and about whenever you please. Everything has to be planned and timed. Not to mention your body isn't even fully through puberty yet, you're still growing yourself. Not trying to be horrible but are you financially and mentally stable enough to have a baby? How do you know your boyfriend is gonna stick around once your pregnant and experiencing mood swings and shout at him for the littlest things. Or that he will stick around once baby is here, screaming at night keeping you awake x
Babies are adorable.. babies are sweet.. but to be honest, it wont be as sweet as looking after someone else baby.. the child whom is call ur own definately need lots n loads of support, attention, love.. At ur age, u need to focus on ur studies, 900$ is definately not enough financially just to support only the baby.. u need to feed urself too.. N ur bf needs to feed himself too.. Focus on a wedding n then think if u can cope having a child..
I hope you listen to the other girls hun. I am 23 and married to my best friend since I was 19. We make quite a bit more then $900 a month and we are still feeling unprepared to bring a baby into the world. When I think back to being 15 my life has changed so much. I thought the guy I was dating at the time was the one andlooking back I am so glad he is part of my history but not my present. Things I thought were important then mean nothing now. You will have diffrent view on life in a few years. I am not saying your relationship with your boyfriend will not survive but I am saying in a few years you might be suprised how much you as a woman have changed. Please wait until you are a bit older. A baby is a major life changing decision and if you have your life together when you decide to be a mom you will enjoy your baby and not regret not having waited. You can get babysitting jobs if you enjoy being around babies. It is a much netter alternitive and you can still enjoy being young.
900$ isn't going to cut it and living off the state wouldn't be much of a picnic either, when you are OLDER and can actually afford and appreciate things you WORK for would be much better because you want to be able to give your child the best you can, you want to be able to afford their food, clothes, diapers, bottles, cleaning things, stroller, car seat, high chair, crib, doctor appointments, .....you think 900$ a month could cover that plus rent, electricity, water, sewage, your food and if you find it necessary cable, cell phone, or , internet
900$ isn't going to cut it and living off the state wouldn't be much of a picnic either, when you are OLDER and can actually afford and appreciate things you WORK for would be much better because you want to be able to give your child the best you can, you want to be able to afford their food, clothes, diapers, bottles, cleaning things, stroller, car seat, high chair, crib, doctor appointments, .....you think 900$ a month could cover that plus rent, electricity, water, sewage, your food and if you find it necessary cable, cell phone, or , internet I think you need to think this over a little more maybe you should try a puppy first
I had a baby at 16. And it definitely wasn't planned! I cannot understand why you would be trying. How do you think that you are going to take care of a baby and go to school. It was very hard for me and I had a supportive baby daddy. I graduated high school and now my son is 16. But let me tell you something was VERY hard. And I felt like I missed out on so many things. Why, why, why would you wish that on yourself? If you get your period please get on birth control and enjoy being young and carefree!
U will not be able to turn back once u have a child.. life will be totally diff.. Dun want u to ended up regreting n then treat the child as a burden to u.. U r still too young to understand motherhood life.. enjoy a teenager life n the adulthood.. then marriage life.. and finally parenthood.. that will be much more complete n blessful..
I agree with alot of the post everyone has posted and i hope you do think about the long ran in life because you have so much to look forward to! But in saying that at the end of the day its your life and what you deside i wish the best of luck and just keep in mind about the child you will bring in 2 this world are you going to honestly be able to support another human besides you and your boyfriend.
And if your boyfriend is the only income for you both im sorry to say but that wont cover everything you need.
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