paranoia

[Rosey1819]

Alright, for the past three and a half months i've been extremely paranoid that I may be pregnant. My partner and I. Haven't done anything since the incident since I'm too afraid to risk, and when we did do something he used protection,didn't finish, but only after did he tell me the condom was too small, thus myself becoming a nervous train wreck without any rational thought. I've had three periods and two negative tests which should be the answer there, but as I foolishly done I went online and have been searching. I've found many cases were women have vaginal bleeding mistaken for a period, even though I'm almost positive it was an actual period I'm still worried. I don't exactly have symtpoms. I was recently diagnosed with IBS so bloating and slight nausea is a usual occurrence now.I've been tracking my periods and I was do on the twenty fourth and it hasn't come yet. My nipples are slightly sore as per usual but they seemed slight darker and that's what's confusing me now. I've been struggling alone with this for the past few months.I'll catch a break and then it'll come back because I've simply read too many things that could potentially happen. I was hoping I could find some reassurance from other people on here, and anything would help.

[Kailalaa]

Well good, hopefully now you can let the go and start to relax, its really not good for our bodies to stay stressed so long. Good luck!

[Rosey1819]

I know I probably seem crazy being paranoid so far into this. I made the mistake of doing too much internet research rather than asking for advice and help myself. I'm basically alone on this. My family frowns on premarital sex, and I'd only get scolded for feeling this way. My friend are young and wild, they're still messing around without protection and on top of the internet and seeing half the women I know end up pregnant has been a major ball of stress. Like I said I was diagnosed with IBS, and few of the symptoms happen to be nausea, bloating, cramping, and such.it doesn't help with the paranoia I've managed to build up over this subject for the past few months. I do really appreciate your comment though. It helps me tremendously, at least knowing the fact that I don't have to keep this pent up inside me.

[Kailalaa]

You're definitely not pregnant. Yes women have been know to mistake implantation bleeding for a period, but it doesn't extend past that first month. Youve had 3 periods and 2 negative tests. You're not pregnant. You need to stop stressing, that's probably what postponing your period