Father?

[Ashbash250]

I messed around with my ex and had unprotected sex on Nov 21. I felt EXTREMELY bad after we started and after literally about 3 pumps (sorry if this is TMI) I asked him to stop. I wasnt too worried at first because I knew he hadnt ejaculated and I had also recently had a period.

I then had sex with my boyfriend on Nov 27th, 29th, and 30th. I later found out I was pregnant and went to the doctor on Dec. 31st. I had a transvaginal ultrasound and they said that I was 6 weeks 2 days. My due date was Aug 24, which means that I concieved around the 30th.

I went to another doctor on Feb 4. when I should have been 11 weeks 2 days. I got another ultrasound (this one not transvaginal) and they said that I was 11 weeks 3 days and changed my due date to Aug 20. This means that I would have concieved around the 27th. I know that sperm can stay inside you for a few days so this made me nervous about the ex boyfiend thing. Do you think there's anyway that my ex could be the father? This is tearing me up inside. I have read that early ultrasounds are usually pretty accurate, which make me feel better, but I have still been worried.

[Ashbash250]

Thanks for the advice guys, and yeah I'm pretty sure he didnt because it was literally SO quick and I've asked him about it numerous times. Also, when he and I were together we never really used condoms and he always knew when to pull out so that I never got pregnant. Another thing that I looked up was types of discharge when youre about to start ovulating and I'm pretty sure I ovulated on Nov. 26th because I remember going to the restroom because I felt moisture and the discharge matched the description of discharge that you get right before you start to ovulate, which makes me think that its more likely my bf's, but I just still get paranoid about it sometimes.

[KarenDiane]

Oh, and my due date is also Aug. 20 and I know for a fact that I conceived on Nov. 30.

[KarenDiane]

It's probably your boyfriend, but you should get a DNA test when the baby is born.

[MamaNae]

I'm sorry you are having such a hard time with this.  As you know, the only sure way to know is by a paternity test once the baby is born.  Off the bat, it is more likely that your boyfriend is the father based on what info you have provided however, are you certain your ex did not ejaculate inside you? In a hospitable environment, sperm can live for up to 5 days.  If he did, then it is highly likely either man could be the father.