baby shower b.s RANTING

[thelovelbonnes]

I really don't want a baby shower because no one is helping me, just my god mother and I. Me and my family have never been close because they didn't raise me and I've always felt like the black sheep. But wtf, you would think because I'm the oldest girl I'd get more support and it's just not happening...so at this point I'm not in the mood,,,me and my fiance already are having it rough because he's in the oil field and it's slow with work,,,but then I have to pay for half of my own damn baby shower,,,, I'm angry ,,I feel so much hatred in my heart idk what to do but pray....I'm sick of being strong and I cry so much...I thought the shower was suppose to be held by the family???

[Liske]

You should get more support from family and friends yes, we all need it now. We don't have babyshowers in Belgium so i don't know what is custom. I do know that parties don't have to be expensive. And look at the bright side: you will probably get a lot of baby stuff that would cost you a lot of money if you have to biy it all yourself. You 'll probably get much more than you need to put in the party too.

[BABYHAMP15]

I'm sorry ur not getting the support u should. Maybe try to look at it as a gift or party for ur baby from Mommy to welcome her into the world! As far as $ goes u can save alot by going to ur local dollar store for decor, invitations & game prizes! Best of luck & I hope ur family comes around!