Noo dont feel guilty we have 3boys & are currently getting ready to welcome our 4th son into the world.. I just knew this one was a girl & i was so heartbroken when they told us a boy...took me a minute but im really happy no matter what were having as long as the baby is healthy...dont beat yourself up i once felt the same way.
It is normal to feel this way... we wanted a girl, and we will have a little boy... still I'm looking at all girly clothes, but as long as he is happy and healthy we will be also happy ❤
I thought this too we have thou 2 boys and now a girl.. I was sooo upset with the second a boy but those two are best of friends now and I couldn't imagine him as a girl... so I think once she's here and you see them start to interact you'll be bursting with joy!! Also everyone goes throu this I think from one to 2 is a big jump and step.. but you have saved money on clothes toys and you start to see the greatness of having two the same!!
Sorry if this didn't help..
Don't feel guilty. A lot of people feel like this. It goes away :)
No worries i think its all the stigma of others wanting babies to be boys all the time that plays a role. And maybe thinking ppl wont be so excited i felt the same with baby girl #1 and now baby girl #2 but honestly wouldn't trade my girls for boys or anything! Dont worry mama