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19 weeks...its a girl

I feel so disappointed its a girl, I really thot its a boy...I feel so guilty too for feeling like this.

To check angain and confirm next month
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Noo dont feel guilty we have 3boys & are currently getting ready to welcome our 4th son into the world.. I just knew this one was a girl & i was so heartbroken when they told us a boy...took me a minute but im really happy no matter what were having as long as the baby is healthy...dont beat yourself up i once felt the same way.
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It is normal to feel this way... we wanted a girl, and we will have a little boy... still I'm looking at all girly clothes, but as long as he is happy and healthy we will be also happy ❤
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I thought this too we have thou 2 boys and now a girl.. I was sooo upset with the second a boy but those two are best of friends now and I couldn't imagine him as a girl... so I think once she's here and you see them start to interact you'll be bursting with joy!! Also everyone goes throu this I think from one to 2 is a big jump and step.. but you have saved money on clothes toys and you start to see the greatness of having two the same!!
Sorry if this didn't help..
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Don't feel guilty. A lot of people feel like this. It goes away :)
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No worries i think its all the stigma of others wanting babies to be boys all the time that plays a role. And maybe thinking ppl wont be so excited i felt the same with baby girl #1 and now baby girl #2 but honestly wouldn't trade my girls for boys or anything! Dont worry mama
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