whos in the room with you

[Allie_May45]

I am 19 years old due with my first baby girl in February and I just want me and the daddy in the room when she is born but everyone else thinks I should let them in there too and there is alot of conflict in his family but also if I chose my mom and not his then there will be another fight what should I do cuz I only want him and me? Who all are you all having in the room when your little ones are born?

[Dwightsgirl]

I only want my boyfriend there....I think this is totally your decision and a private special moment shared between u and your partner. Dont let anyone buly u ino doing anything u dont want to do.  Just have them waiting in the hall next to the room and they can see the baby when she/he comes

[Nisha_Rachel]

Be firm in your decision to have just you and him when you tell both sides of the family. Let them know it's not fair to have one grandma and not the other in there.

[Shannir]

It's your birth experience. If you and bd is all you want so be it. Tell your friends and family you want to experience this on your own. Tell them you guys need your space. Let them know you will involve them when your ready

[Allie_May45]

Thanx

[aisafdzgmz]

Most likely my own :-S

[mommy_of2babies]

Its your body... do what u feel the most comfortable with, but let me advize u in this one thing. If u do it naturally, without pain meds, you will WANT your mother with you because you will feel like no one else could possibly understand what you are going through. Good luck momma!