why does it have to be this way

[saramay2014]

I just dont know anymore, im so upset and hurt. Why does he do this to me i should be treated way better... its 1am my boyfriend was suposta be here at like 9 n now he said hes "on his way" yet he has to leave at ******* 8am whats the point in him even comming. Im really disapointed im hurt and im upset, he never spends time with me and when he does its like this cause of his dad. Im crying so much... he hasnt done anything for me or his baby and im already 31 weeks, he says hes gunna be here for us but hes not now and hasnt helped at all so why should i think hes going to later. Yet he wants me to give the baby his lastname cause weve been together 4 years. Yet he dont treat me right at all and hurts me all the time. Im so hurt and dont know what to do please help me

[karma20]

I'm 31 weeks pregnant and up until I was about 29 weeks, I had some of the same issues, my bf would only come over at night, he would go to baby appts with me but other then that not really there for me. He would break promises all the time, sat he or we were gonna do something then not show, and ignore my text and calls, I hardly ever seen him. I was on the verge of breaking up with him! I even posted on here and everyone told me to do so. Well the very next day.. everything changed! Idk what happened or why it happened, but he completely changed. He does what he says he's going to do, he's herefor me, he shows when he's suppose to, he has stayed with me every single night and plans on moving in January 1st. So I'm not saying put up with it or stay with him or let anyone push u around. U definitely need to stand up for urself and let him know this isn't something ur gonna put up with. Don't wait around let him know things need to change. All I'm saying is I put up with this for 6 months and everything changed for the better. Were so happy now. I'm just saying if its something u really want, if u really love him, if he's willing to do the work.. people can change! Good luck I hope u get everything u want and need :)

[JamieNVance]

I think you totally avoided everything everyone is saying. By only responding about the last name thing. That's obviously not your issue here. You need to be strong and fight for what you deserve. If a man isn't giving that to you. Well why keep him around?? Your obviously really young. Don't limit yourself to this kind of relationship to early in life. You will miss out on a lot of happiness I promise you.

[saramay2014]

Well to be honest our last names are exactly the same except one letter literaly haha

[Hannah09311]

I'm 31 weeks pregnant, got treated like ****, so I left my ex bf of two years, a man I wanted to marry and have been in love with for almost six years. Don't ever stay in an unhappy relationship, because nothing will change unless he desperately wants to change himself. He's not taking his fatherly duties seriously, so I would second guess giving your body his father's last name, as I am

[Lena2315]

My bf left me when I was 7 months now going on 8 and I've decided to give our baby both are last names. He also said he will be here for the baby butI have not ggotten any baby items from him

[kate6989]

My sons father has been in jail since i was 3 months pregnant.  Im currently 31 weeks and he gets out tomorrow.  I have done this whole pregnancy on my own. He says he is going to be involved. Im giving him the option to be. I wont push him away. Ive made the decison to name the baby on my own since he wasnt here and im giving our son my last name. Until he can proove he is going to be a father its going with to stay that way. He isnt just going to earn that right when he hasnt done a damn thing. Its only fair. We are the mothers and every decision we make is for our child. Dont let him pressure you into doing something you dont want to do. Its your baby... as for feeling the way you feel. Stop.. your baby feels everything you do :( when your upset the baby feels it. Just concentrate on you and the baby because in the end thats all that matters.  Good luck to you

[Kathryn2015]

I have to agree with jamienvance,

[JamieNVance]

Your always posting about how unhappy you are in your relationship. Obviously something needs to change or you should just move on. Why would you stay with someone that makes you miserable 90% of the time? Love? Well love isn't like this.

[britt0727]

My husband has treated me really horribly this pregnancy I'm depressed and miserable because of it I just want this pregnancy to be over and I don't know if I would be happy with him after the baby because he's selfish and I'm sick of it.....Men are so stupid smh

[Mama081115]

How old are u and your boyfriend? ... his dad should not be steping in... what are u having?  I wpuld stand up for your self thats wrong...

[NatFox]

You need to stand up for yourself. If he hasn't come as he promised, tell him that you are going to bed and will see him another time... show him that you are not bothered. Men sometimes need a wake up call... but if he see that you are waiting for him no matter what he will keep doing this to you over and over again.