Ok, so I posted before about the bedtime battles i've been having w/ Cooper. Things have not really improved. He will go to bed most nights fairly easily. BUT-------------
At some time in the middle of the night, he wakes, and he cries. The ONLY way to get him back to sleep is for me to lay down w/him (I have a cot in his room, from when I was nursing). When I do this, he goes to sleep within 10 minutes or so. But when he go to put him back in the crib, he *immediately* wakes and screams bloody murder!! And I have to start the whole process over. uugh
Last night, I thought, 'I wonder how long it would take for him to go to sleep on his own if I let him cry??' Well, 2 hours later, I gave in. Seriously; 2 STRAIGHT HOURS of top-of-the-lungs shreiking, pausing only to breathe. Finally, I went in, gave him a drink of milk (his throat *had* to hurt), changed his diaper. I was determined NOT to get him out of his crib. Instead I sat down on the floor beside it, where he could see me, and quietly shushed him, sang to him, etc, then said I was going to sleep and got perfectly still and quiet. Well, he WAILED and reached his arms out like he was pleading for his life. IT was quite pathetic, really.
At this point, I think I am totally being played by my 1 y/o son. He wants to sleep w/ Mommy (which has never happened, except for brief periods of time when I was nursing, not all night ) and he knows how to get what he wants.
MY plan at this point is to STOP getting him out of his bed at night. Period. If necessary, I will go in and sit w/ him until he goes to sleep, but that is it. I am determined not to give in.
Has anyone else had a situation like this?? And how did you resolve it?? I feel horrible for letting him cry, but I *must* change/break this habit!!