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1099046 tn?1281009951

Not good news today

Thank you all for your well wishes and thoughts today!  That means a lot to me.  Unfortunately I got bad news today.  The baby has stopped growing and there was absolutely no progression since last week.  So that is it.  I think I am still in disbelief that after 2 years of trying, we finally get pregnant and it was taken away from us so quickly.  It is just not fair!! Thank you all again for your thoughts and prayers!  Hopefully I will be back on here soon with good news!!
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1099046 tn?1281009951
Thank you everyone!  I am just trying to get through the holidays now, I thought we would be celebrating and telling our extended family tomorrow the good news and now we have to deal with our loss.  It will be nice to be with our families though to help us get through this.    Our Dr has recommended taking a month off, which will be good for us I think.  Then we will start back up in January!  DLVC good luck with your pregnancy, it is reassuring to hear your stories and others.  I am scared to death that I either won't get pregnant again or if I do I will have another misscarriage.  I guess only time will tell.  
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im sorry to hear about your loss.  I have had an experience like you also.  I tried for 5 years before I got pregnant the first time.  Only to have the little one stop growing at 6.5 weeks.  Heartbeat just stopped as soon as it had started. Don't known why!!  I had a D&C to get the m/c over fast.  I got pregnant again 3 months later with no Dr. help.  I have a 14 year old son now!!  After that, 2 years later, I had a bueatiful daughter, now 12 (natural too)!  I got remarried 2 years ago and I have since then have had 2 m/c.  same thing, stopped growing at 6.5weeks.  I have done so many test!!  All came back good... except for my FSH was high.. so we did IVF.  Now I am 5w6days pregnant again and worried!  US is on the 30th of this month....  
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1097098 tn?1262893282
i am so sorry for loss i am thinking of u at this sad time and wish all the best for a succesfull pregancy in the future dnt give up hope x
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Im so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.
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924332 tn?1284573918
I'm so sorry for your loss!! I know how it feels and i know it very hard now, but i hope you get thru this difficult time and get some good news in the near future!! Many of us are part of the TTC after a loss forum, you can find it on my page, when you are ready. You will see their is a great group of women who know exactly how you feel and what you are going thru!! ((hugs))
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1099046 tn?1281009951
Thank you to all of you!! This has been a very hard thing to deal with after trying for so long to get to this point. I am still in disbelief and just can't understand why it had to happen!  But all of your thoughts, words, and stories have helped a little.  I do hope to be back on here soon with good news!  Thanks again!!  
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906115 tn?1344200509
Sorry for your loss and take the time you need for yourself and your body! It is a long process but I hope you will be back soon with good news to share. May your little angel grow in heaven now with all our little ones. I have lost a daughter after birth and had mc at different weeks and I will tell you that all is the same no matter what age!
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760797 tn?1303264540
I am so very sorry for your loss. We are here for you if you ever need to talk. I pray you will be back here very soon!
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448723 tn?1301454958
I am so sorry for your loss! Miscarriage is something that is very hard to deal with and support is essential. If you need someone to talk to about it PM me. Most of us here on Med help have gone through one or more and know how hard it can be!

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I am so very sorry. I cannot imagine what you are going through.  We are all here for you with whatever you need.  I know we will see you back very soon.  
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589816 tn?1332976771
I'm so sorry honey....When I lost my baby it was the hardest thing in the world. That's when I found a small group of ladies on MH that I wouldn't have made it through without. I'll be praying for you and I'm always here if you need someone to talk to. *hugs*
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