I have a child with down syndrome, and I didn't know it until delivery. Whatever your situation may be, there are a ton of support groups out there. I urge you, whatever you decide, before you decide, reach out to your local group. You'd be surprised on the wealth of information available from them, not to mentioned the support. I got connected with mine after my child was born, however, they understood everything I was going through, especially the grieving process. Praying for. Reach out if you need it.
That I have to meet with a genetic prenatal specialist team to discuss my options.. having to wait has got me very anxious
What is your doctor saying about this?