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torn

So this is my third and final pregnancy and we find out in 6 days if its a boy or girl. I haven't told anyone in my family or friends this but I really want a girl. I want my hubby to have one of each (I have a daughter from a previous marriage) like I do. I want to dress up a baby again. My hubbys fam is mostly boys...but I am praying for a girl. I feel guilty for hoping for one over the other...and thats the reason I'm finding out asap...so I don't build my hopes up for 9mos. Am I a horrible person? Are there other June mommies hoping more for one? I know I will love whatever I have and ultimately I just want a healthy happy baby...but I'd so love to buy some dresses...
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1374102 tn?1363009479
Aww I am glad to hear that you're having a girl! I am so excited to shop for a girl finally myself. Hubby and I went out last night and finally bought a few outfits.
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Had my 20 week scan today...girl!! Im excited...so excited!! Congrats to you all ladies and thanks for reminding me I'm human and no matter what happens it will b ok.
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4220225 tn?1360685122
This is our first. We both wanted a boy first, but we're having a girl. I'm willing to try again in a few years. I told him if we have two girls, I'm not trying for a boy. I only want one girl, so two will definitely be the stopping point. We were disappointed when we found out, but we're adjusting.
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1374102 tn?1363009479
I know how you feel I have a 2 year old son so I wanted a little girl this go round and when we went to the gender scan and they told me it was a girl I think I about fell off thr table from excitement. I know that if it were a boy it would have taken some time for me to get used to it. And it seems like both my family and husband's family are male dominant so I for sure thought it was going to be a girl but deep down I knew it would be a girl.
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Will u try again for a boy?
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I just found out yesterday that we are having a girl. This will make three girls for us and I cried. I had high hopes for a lil boy. But god has a plan for all of all of us. It will all work out
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