argh midwifes rubish!!

[yumimumi]

So i had my 16 wk apointment yest and shes useless! i askd if she could listen to heart beat as i cnt feel movement its my 4th preg so i should n she refused! then i asked bou my labour, i had a tramic birth wit 2nd, he was blue n had to b bout back etc, then my 3rd was born bathroom floor i suferd a masiue bleed and was 30mins from death so when i c my consultant they tel me i wil b hookd up to a drip etc so askd midwif what the drip is her answer i duno, askd if i could have a water birth her answer duno and wil i b leftd like last time her answer i duno! so now im worid sick bou baby! and i completey crapin myself bou labour! So to rant but seriously!! argh!!

[yumimumi]

Aww sorry to hear that. yes im waiting for an apointment for my consultant to be sent so maybe then il get the answers! i always end up wit the **** midwifes! and its never the same one! Everything thats ever gone rong with my pregnancys and birth has been the hospitals fault! not a fan!lol! xx

[bimbicat7]

BUMMER! sorry it was so ****** for you that sux mine went ok, she was ok but i have many questions this time around as well its my 4th also and i have 3 boys, last labor was induced at 38.5 due to my bad back i was on crutches!  baby was big as they all are over 4kgs or 9.3lbs and he was born blue not breathing and rushed to nicu for 2 weeks tube fed intubated ect with RDS, I need to know if i should take steroids this time to mature lungs ect will this prevent it happeneing she didnt know and said id have too wait to see dr and ask him in few weeks im going back at 21weeks so hope to have som answers then!